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If a 16 year old guy cries is that a bad thing?

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i was just thinking about all the stuff me and my mom have been through and all the stuff ive done bad to her..

she drew on a piece of my paper a picture of a girl crying a bubble beside it saying "why me god why me whatd i do why not someone else" and ive been crying for the past 30 minutes and i cant help it..

does this make me a softy or bad?

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  1. no its very good that you will allow your emotions to show...

    my mother always told me that it takes a real man to show his feelings and i agree 100%..

    just let your mom know how much you love her, youre sorry about hurting her in the past and will do your best not to in the future..

    dont b ashamed of crying or letting your feelings show...be proud...your girlfriend or wife will appreciate it later on...


  2. Crying is good, it relieves stress.  

  3. No. It shows you have some compassion and are sorry for the way

    your treated your mother in the past. Have a good, cleansing cry and vow to be nicer to her.

    Good luck, Hon.

  4. you're not a softy, im sorry about that

  5. No I am a male 18 year old college student and I cried when school started this year. JK. No but it is normal I have cried numerous times in the past few years, and it dosn't mean if your softy or bad, that means your emotional and its a good thing too

  6. it means you care, s***w softy or bad in your situation go talk with your mom and start new

  7. Even though society says you shouldn't cry, everyone does, no matter how old or how tough you are.

  8. not at all if your hurting go ahead and cry it doesnt make you  soft or anything it sounds like youve been though some hard times so if you need to go ahead and cry in my opinion i think that more guys should feel     free to let it out and cry so if anything youre more of a man that you can let yourself cry

  9. no. its ok. make amens. nevr 2 late

  10. oh wow. i woulf first apologize to your mom. you aren't going to have her forever, tell her how much she means to you know.... now!! lol.

    i think you are growing up and realizing you have a heart.... which is great!!!! this made me want to cry....  

  11. Why would it be a bad thing? It's not a sin at all. We all have emotions. Sometimes you just gotta let your inner stress out by crying. It unshameful.

  12. I think you should tell your mom you're sorry instead of crying about it.

    It's okay to cry, but only when you plan to fix whatever is making you sad. If you can't or won't do anything to fix the problem, you shouldn't cry because it can't be helped. Try not to cry in public too.

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