If a boy went against his parents and dated someone they didn't approve of, would they ok it eventually?

Question

i got into a fight with my ex's parents and I'm sure now that my ex won't date me because hes afraid of what will happen with his parents if he does. I have apologized to his parents but they are stubborn. If my ex dated me again, would they be ok with it? I'm asking this because don't most parents love their children enough not to give them up over a decision their children make that they don't approve of?

Answer 1

thats a toughie parents are a hard egg to break.. u need to give it time..

Answer 2

Parents need to realize what's best for their kids, not themselves. If their kids are happy in the relationship then they need to stay out of it unless there is a valid reason to intervene(abuse, drugs, alcoholism etc...)

Truth is, once a kid is 18, their parents have absolutely no say in the relationships so they'd better suck it up.

Answer 3

It depends on why his parents don't like you. If you really like the guy, you'll have to prove yourself to his parents that you're worthy of their son. But even then, some parents are just too stubborn to change their mind.

I think you should just move on to a different guy. You said so yourself that you're sure your ex won't date you because of his parents. If he's too worried about what his parents think, getting back together with him is a waste of time. He might just leave you again because of his parents.

Answer 4

It might be ok over time if you proved yourself worthy of him to them, they may NEVER like you especially as you have had a fight with them in the past, but ultimately it will be the couples decision whether they stay together or not

Answer 5

Parents can't choose who their kids gets with but even if you end up with him does not mean they will ever have to like you just like you may never like them.

Same thing is going on with my brother and his girlfriend, none of our family wants him with her because she is trash and that is no lie. My mom caught her and my brother on the couch and she was playing with his thing so she is not allowed back around.

Answer 6

Probably not.  They are going to want what's best for their son and no parent's think that other kids who disrespect them or authority are good influences on their kids.   If they are like most parents, they don't give a flying rat's butt about you they are only interested in their kid.   Therefore, you can apologize all you want, if they don't want you around their kid they aren't going to be ok with you trying to be around their kid.  If you push the issue, they'll just push back harder.   I've seen people pack up and move because there were unhealthy relationships going on between someone and their kids.   Leave the dude alone, find someone else, be more respectful of their parents and of their parents authority and maybe you'll have better luck.

Answer 7

if your bf is THAT concerned with his parents' approval, then he's not as into you as you are into him.

if the fight with his parents is what broke up your relationship, then i'm afraid he made his priorities clear and you're not high enough on his list.

Answer 8

What was the fight about? That would make the difference. If it was something minor it surely be forgiven

Answer 9

i used to fight with my ex mother in law all the time when me and him were on and off again but she never really forgave nor liked me much! thats was kinda her additude from the beggining with me. but it all depends on the extent of the fight and whether or not you went to far or vice versa my advice let it go to much drama!