If a girl is too clever and too beautiful, is she too much for any man....?

Question

....or is there a minimal chance that a man exists who can suit her...?

....I really need to know...

Answer 1

She may be very intimidating to men (and women alike), rest assured there is someone out there to equal at least her intellect. And if choosing between a man with good looks or intelligence this girl should be looking for an equal in intellect, a pretty but less intellectual man will only bore her.

Answer 2

Yes I probably am

Answer 3

Why, is she planning on playing chess or some other form of games which requires 'cleverness' as an essentially and needy component for a relationship to work?

As to her beauty, well, she can readily overcome that by choosing only those who are blind, can't she. Or if needs be, he can always arrange to donate his eyes for those who really need them.

I can appreciate beauty, but it is only something that is skin deep, and after a while, when you get used to it, it ceases to have the effect it might have had at the start.

With all that said, I really do feel like pouring out some invectives upon the question ...and will not restrain in my abstaining of it.

Sash.

Answer 4

some how i feel this to be a loaded question against the male species.  I think what your saying is are there men intelligent enough to handle intelligent women and at the end of the day you may as well ask are there tall men or short women etc. I think a person can be to conceited in regards to the idea that they are to clever or/and beautiful which will push men/women away from them.  but humility and modest self belief is such a rare jewel.  normally we all have neurosis that we feel cripple us in some way (to tall, to loud, to fat, to thin, etc)  

so in answer to that question, no i don't think so in my humble and modest opinion.

Answer 5

I never have any problems !

Answer 6

you are just one of those girls who think they're all that. There is this book called the Game by Neil Strauss. girls like you are easily seduced every night.

Answer 7

nope never. is this too clever and too beatiful girl gonna die alone.... id like to see it happen. it never will happen. no such thing. a man will never suit her a girl of that stature and that caliber should die alone

Answer 8

Your problem with getting a man isn't that you're 'too clever and too beautiful' - it's that you're conceited and obnoxious.

Try some humility, and you may get some action.

Answer 9

1) Beauty is a subjective thing. For some Arabians the fat woman is the beauty one. But for some Europeans the fat woman is the ugliest thing ever! So..."The beauty is in the eye of the beholder!"

2) Clever...more objective, but, not really. For example- you may know a lot of poems, writers, historians; to be familiar with the philosophy and sociology, but...to have no idea about the chemistry or football. That's why "clever" is a relative category.

SO?

No one can be really beautiful and enough clever in fact. That's why for any man it is not a big deal and, also, depends of the values, probably, most of the males will like to have beautiful and clever, than ugly and stupid, right?

Answer 10

If a girl is too beautiful and too clever she would know that they count for nothing as she has the same insecurities as any women.

Asking if she is too much for any man shows a fear or rejection, that she will rejected because of her beauty and brains. Some women are rejected because they are seen as unattractive or not clever.

What it all boils down too is that we all as women and men can be rejected so beauty and brains don't really matter.

There is a chance that there is a man out there to suit everywomen. Only thing is men have more choice because there are more women in the world then men. Hence some womens insecurities.

Answer 11

Yes,but the girl should be proper with everybody or that man.

Answer 12

Of course there is, there are many beautiful and intelligent women out there married to wonderful, intelligent men.

There are a lot of men and women out there that are not shallow.

Answer 13

Its does not matter either way. If you met to get married. its will happen. Live one day at a time

Answer 14

LOL.  There is a serious flaw in your question!

A GIRL isn't going to be BOTH clever AND beautiful!

Answer 15

lol... look at asian girls beautiful and clever!!

Answer 16

erm, a little humility can be attractive....

Answer 17

Hi my dearest, just think that somewhere out there a guy is certainly thinking the same thing for himself...that is: "Am I too much for any girl? Is there a girl who can suit me?". My answer is: there is a perfect match for each of us...but the real problem is that no one knows when or where we are going to meet.

Answer 18

No, in fact, I've been looking for her; it seems like forever. Where are you? Enjoy.

Answer 19

Perhaps you ought to read Freud's essay

"The Sexual Failure of the Beautiful Woman"

Answer 20

Sorry, couldn't say as I've never met a clever one

Answer 21

Only if she thinks she is.

Answer 22

I would consider that girl a diva. And any guy that wants her has to be rich or something because those girls were spoiled when they were young.

Answer 23

If a man is too handsome and clever, is he too much for any woman?

You make it sound as though  the two qualities you have picked on are like weapons that have to be equalled, or bettered, or she isn't going to be satisfied. I wouldn't be attracted to any woman who was as cool and calculated as that. Anyway, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Answer 24

If a women has both beauty and brains and a man can't handle that then it is his problem, not hers. Is there a man out there for her, sure, she just have to keep looking and stay away from the ones that she knows for sure will never accept her for what she is.

Answer 25

yes   and  no   ....and   beautiful  clever  females   don't  know  they  are  because   their  mostly  shy   constantly  put  down by  both  sexes   and  males  are  scared  of  them  for  some  reason  sad  fact   but   there's  always  one   just  don't  hold  your  breath

Answer 26

Sounds like the kind of girl I'm looking for >.>

It would be too much for a stupid guy. Look for a guy who is equally clever and who doesn't care about what people look like. Yes those guys do exist, they're just in different places then the stupid guys.

Answer 27

I would say there is minimal chance that a man exists that could suit her unless he is prepared to put up with a woman who loves herself more than him!

Answer 28

If you were clever, you would not have  posted this question using the words you used. Aren't you just a bit conceited and presumptuous?

Answer 29

a smart man will  celebrate the woman's beauty and cleverness (intelligence) and grow from it. He will feel privilaged to have such a beautiful woman at his side, and grow in his own cleberness and intelligence because of her. What a great thing it would be to have such a woman at one's side.

The Pianoman

Answer 30

What you really need to do is to get over your sexist attitude.

I doubt that you are as clever or as beautiful as you seem to think you are.

Answer 31

no, only too much for the man who considers her too beautiful and too clever. I dont believe that there is one woman who is too much for every man. there is definitely someone (possibly more than one!) who could be a suitor.