If a guy is sexually using your friend, & you KNOW it, should you try to stop it or leave it alone?

Question

1 of my friend's female coworkers is being sexually taken advantage of by this guy. My friend asked me if she should step in & say something or just leave it be. She said that it really breaks her heart to see the guy using her for s*x & then talk about her like a dog behind her back.

Answer 1

Tell her.

Answer 2

The guy needs to be told what a pig he is.  Don't hurt the girl by telling her.

Answer 3

If the girls so stupid she just gives it up to the dude without knowing he's committed or in a realtionship with him, then she's a s**t, and gets whatever she gets.

How do you know she isn't usin' him?  They both could just be stupid, but smart enough they don't want to be in a relationship and are just banging till mr./ms. right comes along.

stay out of it.

Answer 4

If your friend and her co-worker are on good terms and are actually "friends" and not just "co-workers" then yes, she should say something in a tactful way.  "Listen, girl, it's because I care about you that I wanted to say something..."

If they are really just "co-workers" she needs to stay out of it.  Her advise might be considered an intrusion on her co-worker's privacy and probably won't be received warmly.  I can hear it  now: "You're just jealous, you've never liked me, who the h**l do you think you are?"

Answer 5

Well firstly how do you know that he is taking advantage of her? How do you know that she isn't the one who is looking for a no strings attached fling? Once you hit your heated period you'll take a wino.

But I say this, if I was really her friend I would give her the heads up. But I would not go out of my way to stop her if she continues to see him. She may not care, it may just be about the s*x. If your friend is in her later 20's (28,29) or in her 30's or 40's then she is in her heated period and she probably won't care what he says about her behind her back, as long as he keeps coming back.

Answer 6

well, i mean he doesn't love her, he is taking advantage of her body, he's abusing her verbally, he's hurting her feelings, she's unhappy... poor thing.  tell her 2 tell her 2 dump that ... and to get her life back, if he may try 2 be violent, then she can try 2 help her 2 face him and 2 get over him, because she deserves better, i'm sure. she must not be angry if the other girl says she's lying coz she's in denial, i mean the man is reating her like a prostitute and she's not seeing it!!!!!