If a husband was accused of cheating by the wife because she felt neglected and thought he might be, do you ?

Question

think it is possible the husand would get angry if he wasn't cheating and decide to cheat or set up profiles? And then when caught say he did it out of anger from being accused and was just venting?

Answer 1

That is just plain stupid.  What?  If someone accuses me of stealing and I know I didn't do it, am I going to go steal from someone just to get back at the person who accused me?  No, that's just a stupid excuse to justify cheating.

Answer 2

No. If he set up profiles, he's cheating. Period, Next question....  

Answer 3

Cheating is never OK and there are no valid excuses to cheat.

Answer 4

just a lame excuse for a man who won't confess, or be accountable.

Answer 5

Ok..let's see if I understand what you're asking....

I believe that if a person is subjected to distrust they could eventually cheat. I'm not saying it would be on purpose or a conscious thing...like "now then..you accused me of it so I'm doing it" But I do believe that jealousy and insecurity and distrust can cause distance in a marriage and leave someone wide open to cheating.

Answer 6

well there are reasons a women feels neglected.  maybe because she is being neglected?  Why on earth would you want her to think your cheating if your not?  Wouldnt it make more sense to sovle the neglect problem?  Why do make her feel this way?  This sounds to me like you got caught!! and this is your way out of it has Im sure you want her to see this question here.  How would you feel if she saw these profiles you set up, and that caused her to cheat??  Sounds to me like you guys have issues of commication that neither of you are trying to work out.  In fact you sound just like my ex and all he ever did to me was play this type of head game, so now after only less then a year of marriage and a child of two,  the child has a broken up family life, because no head game will strengthen a marriage or spare a child greif and pain at the lose of both parents in the home. No head game is worth haning on to.

Answer 7

There's no excuse good enough to cheat. Period.

Are you hoping to assuage your guilt?

Answer 8

nothat i knew it brokes my hurt

Answer 9

If he gets mad he IS cheating. A man who loves his wife and isn't cheating on her would tell her that he loves her and would never do that to her because he would never want to lose her. He wouldn't get mad and do something stupid. When I asked my husband if he was cheating he would just say no and not try to comfort or convince me guess what?! He was cheating.

Answer 10

that question makes no sense to me LOL

Answer 11

maybe you should be nicer to him; cause you will lose him if you whine so much!