ever want s*x again?
I keep hearing that if a couple loses their s*x life in the mid years, they'll never get it back. I'm 40 and my husband is 50. We haven't been sexually active in 4 years (not consistently active in more than 12 years of our 15 year marriage).
He never mentions s*x. He never initiates. When I try, he says he wants to, but not now.
He saw a urologist who prescribed ED meds for him and I thought thinks were looking up. But he lost them. It's been a month, and not only has he not taken them, but he's not looking for them.
I know that this has to be difficult for him, but I feel really rejected. I don't want the rest of our lives to be celibate - especially if they don't have to be.
I've asked a few questions before and have been called insensitive for wanting to be intimate with my husband. Please don't tell me to just get a vibrator. It's not just s*x. It's feeling wanted and being held and really being kissed.
We've tried counseling....
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