If a man offered to change your life in exchange for s*x, would you take up the offer?

Question

my parents were never supportive of me and what I had to do. I'm born low-class. My mom constantly teases and taunts me. My dad ignores me. No love there. I tried to get a job but no one wants to hire me cuz I'm still working on my college degree. There's one guy that offered to give me a lot of money and help me. He hates commitment though, and don't know if he'll stay after s*x. But, should I take up the offer and follow him. Either way, it's a lose-lose situation. But which one would you go for if you were in my situation? Thanks!

P.S. I'm still a virgin...but my parents don't believe me and not sure if i want to lose it to this guy.

Answer 1

keep with u family,i know is hard,finish your studies and then move ahead

Answer 2

Work on changing your life for yourself, by yourself..... you'll have a much higher appreciation of your accomplishments that way!!  Also, try going to college in another state or city so that you have to live on campus away from your parents... You may find yourself becoming more self motivated, and your self esteem will blossom.  Keep your head up and move toward your goal on your own.  Also, check into Educational Opportunity Programs that offer discounts and breaks to children who would have a harder time getting out of a "low class" "low income" situation.  

Answer 3

No! do not take his offer.

Once you get your college degree you can move out ( if u haven't already)

and you can turn your life around on your own (:

Soon you may even find a special someone who you will be loved by

Good luck

Answer 4

If you want to make your money as a prostitute then yes take this guy up on his offer,, However make him give you the money up front... And in some countries a virgin can get as much as $5000 for their first time,  Otherwise tell this guy to take a hike and keep looking for a job with dignity ,,,  

Answer 5

Just because you were born "low class" doesn't mean you have to stay there. You've taken really good steps to pull yourself up. Many people raised like you become paralysed, and can't even take the steps you already have. So kudos.

The second thing, I used to tell my child that her heart ALWAYS knew the right answer, and I think yours has already answered your question.

You don't need us.

Lastly, take a c**p job for now, you know it will not be forever. Then make up for that after you get your degree. Doing a stupid job will be better for your self esteem that prostituting yourself.

I wish you luck. Maybe your parents don't feel any pride for you, but I  do. It takes alot of strength and guts to get as far as you have. Good job!!!! (insert cyberhug here lol)

p.s. a bit of unsolicited advice. when you get your degree put a little distance between you and your parents, just enough that you can control your exposure to them.