If a married woman talks to another man on line is it still cheating?

Question

A married woman goes on second life and has a boyfriend on the second life and she married in real life isnt it still cheating? Give me you opion about it.

Answer 1

if your wife is doing something that hurts you then yes it is cheating. some people might be just fine with the idea but if it bothers you then she should stop. what works for one relationship doesn't neccessarily work in another.  

Answer 2

Yes it is cheating. To many people are hiding behind a computer and calling it just conversation. Call it what you want but often it leads to other situations.

Answer 3

if it's something that would hurt the spouse and/or something you would never do with the spouse standing right there in front of you watching then it's cheating.

Answer 4

Its not.

Answer 5

Sure it's cheating.  

Answer 6

In this situation, yes.  She's engaging in sexual activities with another person, and knowing he wouldn't like it, she was keeping it a secret.

Answer 7

If she has a boyfriend, yes. If she is just talking, no. She is offering to another what she should be to her husband if she has a boyfriend. Naughty, Naughty.

Answer 8

If you are asking this question then you already know the answer.  Why don't you ask your husband and see what he thinks.  

It sounds like you have some (lack of) intimacy issues going on and you are circumventing them by having a relationship online because you can say things in anonymity that you could not say face to face to your husband.  In an anonymous relationship you can be anything or anybody that you want to be and no one is any the wiser.  

Investigate why you feel the need to do that.  Are you really afraid to talk to your other half candidly?  Are you afraid he would laugh or scoff at the things you would say to your pen (pc) pal if you said them to him?  

A rule of thumb is that if you feel like you have to hide it, it's probably wrong.

Answer 9

Of course its cheating. Whether she does anything with him or not, shes thinking of it, and allowing him to get to her stoopid head.

Answer 10

yes, it is

Answer 11

Is she just talking online? How is that having a boyfriend and second life?  

Answer 12

It depends on the tone of things. If it's a friend that she normally jokes with and things don't go to far (i.e. phone/chat s*x), it's OK. If she is being serious, it's emotional cheating.

Answer 13

if she calls him her boyfriend and not boy  friend then yes.

Answer 14

wow.. well you already said boyfriend..

i would consider it as an emotional affair..

Answer 15

It would depend on what they talk about.  I have a male friend on line that I chat with daily, but there is nothing going on between us, at all.

Answer 16

Um, technically, maybe not, but I don't think God would rubber stamp that as OK!  

Marriage vows spoken by married people are for life, real, virtual or otherwise.  I don't think a married woman is honoring her husband if she is getting an online boyfriend.

Answer 17

just talking to a man on line is not cheating.  Having a boyfriend/husband besides you in a virtual world or real life is cheating.

Answer 18

No but if hidding it from your partner it is not right.  As long as your partner does not care it is ok.  I prefer and me and my wife have on line friends that talk to both of us not just or the other.

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Answer 19

Yes, it is cheating if she is devoting her emotional energy to her cyber "boyfriend", to her internet relationship. To even claim to have a "boyfriend" while married is cheating on that marriage, regardless of whether its just on line or not.

***Naked web cam chats? Definitely cheating!!!!!

Answer 20

No, it's not, it's called "fantasy".