If a person dont like you but then he wanted a favor, would you do it or not

Question

My brother in law and his soon to be wife dont like me. His girlfriend turn out to be a back stabber and now because of her, my brother in law doesnt talk to me. Anyways Their getting married on Aug 5th. Well my man has a doctors appointment on that day and he cant reschedule it because thats the day when the doctor tells him that if he can get a pace maker. ( He had a mild heart attack last year and now his been improving and the whole family and i have been there for him to support him). My man's grandmother is the one thats going to take him to the doctors and my brother in law is upset because he wanted her to be there at the wedding but she decided she rather go to the doctor with my boyfriend. The Reason i can't take my man because i am working that day. Since my brother in law really wants his grandma to go. They wanted to know if I can switch days with someone so that i can take my boyfriend to the doctors and the grandma can go to his wedding. Should I be an *** about it and not switch or should i just switch even though they dont talk to me and let them be happy that the grandma is going?

Answer 1

Do whatever you feel like is the best.  If you feel that this request is

reasonable then you might want to it or if you feel that they are trying

to use you then don't do it.

Answer 2

Dont  lopse any sleep over this.  If this is the only time they need you forget it.  The Dr. appt is more important and you working making a living is too.  However you could tell them if they would like to pay your  days wages up front not after the wedding than you will take him to the Dr, and grandma can come to the wedding.  That this is the only way t=you can work it out cause of your money situation,

Answer 3

You should switch days.  For one your boyfriend would probably appreciate you being there.  Two, like it or not this is your family.  You

need to try to be the bigger person.  Who knows maybe your bother-in-law will appreciate it too.  Life is easier if you can get along with your family.  It certainly isn't going to hurt.  Regardless of their reaction, you will have done the right thing.

Answer 4

switch!

do it for your man!

Answer 5

nope not at all

Answer 6

It depends, if their mean or rude to you then no don't take him.

If they don't like you but have never been rude (which judging by what you wrote I doubt this) then I'd have to say yes. But your best excuse is that you have to go to work, whether you see work more important or not that's your best excuse.

Hope this helps!

Answer 7

yea just do the favor...after that he will like u a bit atleast he will think u r a good person its like kill him in ur kindness.  

Answer 8

well for the general question:

If a person dont like you but then he wanted a favor, would you do it or not

i would but only cuz i am a wimp

for the personal question:

i would not just cuz i am a wimp (tho that is part of it) i would

i mean it IS there wedding day even if you hate them

you should let the gameplaying stop at least for this time in there life

hope you guys make up

-kt

Answer 9

I wouldn't...F*** them! If you're not good enough any other time then you aint good enough now!

Answer 10

No, if u dont like em, they can just help em selves!

Answer 11

s***w 'em. After they get what they want from you they still won't have one bit of use for you. please yourself and forget them

Answer 12

Well Its usually better to be the bigger person. If you never help him out, he'll never like you. But If you want your brother in law to think highly of you, try to help him. Who knows, maybe he will follow your example and help u out some day

Answer 13

Don't like?

You can contribute to the saga if you want. Up to you.

Answer 14

The Cristian thing would  bee to try to help out if you can

Answer 15

just switch days.

make them happy, you never know it might put you in their good books.

Answer 16

i wouldnt do it man.

but then y dont want to be an *** about it so idk