If a straight guy is wanting to hang out with me is he g*y?

Question

i know him through other friends and his GF. ive hung out with him and another friend(female) at bars even g*y bars. We all enjoy working out.

He knows im bi/g*y,,..im masculine but dont have many friends and no guys friends.. so now he started texting me and wants to go to the gym and work out together and i dont know hes curious or wants to just work out... i dont even know what to talk about...i feel awkward.

Answer 1

no

Answer 2

We all want acceptance, and then when some get it from the straight world, it is automatically assumed that they are bicurious. Not cool. That would be like saying because you (being g*y) wants to hang out with a straight guy only because you want to do him. People of all different races/sexualities/ethnicities etc. can be friends. s*x is relevant only when the two decide to make it relevant.

Answer 3

He is being a very open minded person in my opinion. He probably just wants to be friends with you.  

Answer 4

Just try treating this as a friendship for now, just to be safe. He could just be a nice guy who wants to be friends. Go for it.

Get to know him a little better, and maybe his true intentions will be revealed.

Answer 5

He could just be comfortable and secure enough that he just wants to be friends.  My best friend in high school was straight guy.  We used to  hang out and do all sorts of stuff together.  Just be yourself, if he wants to work out, go work out.  Talk about working out.

If he is interested in anything more, he will let you know.  Don't assume one way or the other.  

Answer 6

He may be g*y or bi and trying to test his feelings on you and your friendship together. Or he may simply be a very open minded straight guy. There are some of us out there. You never really know unless you ask him, and unless he does something that is obvious, there's prolly no reason to bring it up.

Answer 7

i would say that maybe the guy just thinks that you're cool and your best bet would be to assume that he just wants to be friends unless he ever says otherwise.

Answer 8

He might be in need of a friend, have you thought about it? Whenever a guy is interested in spending some time with another one, might he be g*y or not, doesn't necessarily mean that he wants to get in the other guy's pants.