If a woman doesnt wana have a baby then how is it selfish?

Question

having a baby is extremely painful and has 200 x more of an effect on a woman than a man so how can it be selfish to deprive the man of a baby when the woman goes thru all that?!? i just dont get it

Answer 1

it's not

Answer 2

it's the women's right weather to have a baby or not but you should have the decency to tell your other half before your together not after

Answer 3

I dont know how a woman puts up with all that pain anyway. Whoever she is she has my admiration.

Answer 4

It's not selfish.

Answer 5

It's not selfish at all...

Answer 6

It's foolish for anyone to claim a woman is selfish for not having a baby.

It's a PERSONAL decision.

Answer 7

He shoudl find a woman who wants a child.  If she doesn't want one, no one should make her because she won't want to raise the child and it will be hard for her to love the child

Answer 8

it isnt this man is a JERK!

Answer 9

No not selfish at all.  Isn't it selfish of the man to expect it?

It is just as selfish to want a baby as to not want a baby.  It should be a completely joint decision.

Answer 10

on the other hand, it could be deemed selfish of the man if he didn't want a child.