If change is the rule of nature than, why do we call cheating, when a married man hunts for a Date..???

Question

A happy go lucky married man of 48 has a feeling to have a date with a young beautiful women to enjoy the fun of dating...IS it a bad feeling do he has...?

Answer 1

Ah .. I guess we are still in the age of men.  We are conditioned - male and female, that it is righteous to have one mate.  And since what ever is law on earth is law in heaven we are bound by the law as well.  And since man made this rule, man is bound by it.

In the beginning it wasn't that way.  When man was created in the 6th day, he was told to go forth and multiply.  Let me clarify man.. this is plural for all humans - male and female.  And in tribal communities, back in the day, men did take many wifes for the purpose of having children.  To cover all bases here, it continues to apply in Islamic principles for the purpose to have children in some sects, but not in Christian.

Therefore, man, if you want to share your time with another female on a date, then be prepared of the consequences of your actions.

Answer 2

Well, considering that said "Happy go lucky" man made a commitment to a particular woman whom he married--that is cheating.  If he wants to be out there dating, divorce your wife and let her find someone who is willing to honor his commitment and treat her with dignity and respect.  You can't have your cake and eat it too, as they say.

Answer 3

h**l yeah it's bad.  I was with a man for 28 years & he decided to get a girlfriend.  We had 2 elementary school age children & it tore our world apart.  Now he only sees his children every other weekend. My question would be was she worth it to go from seeing your children everyday to 78 days a year.

Answer 4

When you marry and commit yourself to a person, you promise to love that person no matter what andto stick by her.  That is why it is called cheating because you desecrate the vows you have made in front of people and your God.   I think for a man of 48, you should have realized by now what you really want of your life.  If you want to date and change your partner every so often, then you should get a divorce and let the other person live a better life.  It is just so unfair to stay faithful to a person while the other person enjoys gallivanting around.  Have mercy on your partner and children, if you have any.   If you are committed already, don't date.   If you want to date, get out of your marriage and live your happy go lucky life without hurting others.

Answer 5

yes.  because the rule of nature has been superseded by the rule of marriage.  the rule of marriage imposes a mutual duty of sexual exclusivity on both parties to the marriage.

Why go on a date if you're not contemplating violating that duty?

Answer 6

depends on the wife if its a bad thing or not.  LOL  good luck

BTW I wouldn't want my hubby to do it.

Answer 7

This 49 year old man(happy-go-lucky?)  needs to date other women to feel fulfilled?.....it sounds like maybe his marriage is a little "stale".The vows of marriage should be sacred and upheld....and it is now time for this man to put some "spark" back into his marriage.....not to cheat. He should have a "heart-to-heart" talk with his wife and they should make time for each other....romantic getaways, dinners, etc. Men and women, we all fantasize, too... and that is normal. Whether this happy-go-lucky man would ever actually try to date another woman sounds pretty "iffy" to me....he is either looking for someone to say it is ok to cheat (and anyone who does say that is a loser) or is just trying to see if other men have these feelings.......it is called affirmation. The "grass always looks greener on the other side"...is a great adage and it is true.He should be  thankful he has a wife (and maybe childen) that truly love him and need him. Dating may be fun when you are young, but love, stability and comfort are far more rewarding. Ever hear of "mid-life crisis"?...this man is definitely "at war" with himself.

Answer 8

you don't love your wife that much than if you would hurt her like that. What if she does a young dude? The oportunity is there everyday for her to do that. But hey, be your self-centered self.

Answer 9

well if he finds the girl who is willing to date him then why not...

Answer 10

Society millions of years ago created rules that are almost manipulative on human nature. While men feel the need to stroke their d* i c k even at 85, women lose out very early and some do not enjoy it even a few weeks after they have had it the first time. It is a sorry partnership then on.

Men by nature tend to give up on trying to please faster than women do and thus after a period of time realize that the woman is faking it. Then on men start to look out and most men are capable of finding a woman at any age. To safeguard against this ability of man the institution of marriage was created.

Marriage and all the holy n sacred riffraff that goes with it is a manipulative maneuver created by society to protect the women from being treated like commodities.

Men in power n position with lots of money have openly broken this unwritten rule and enjoyed many women in a lifetime and at various ages.

Now to answer your question: Well you will have to decide what you want to do. Being loyal to ur wife is want society wants u to do and getting stroked around to be pleased is what u want to do. So make ur choice and be happy.

Enjoyed answering ur question it was both interesting and intelligent and come to think of it very thought provoking too…