If cheated once by spouse, can u trust her / him anymore?

Question

If he/she has owned up, how do u believe all has been told?

Answer 1

if true repentation is there, then@ to err ios human and toforgive is devine@

Answer 2

MAN.. Thats hard for me.. i see it as a cheat is a cheat.. that mean that person is able to steal also. and lie... Can u trust them if they are all above.. think about it... I wouldn't like the bible says

"THOU SHALT NOT COMMIT ADULTERY", especially if your relationship is serious no matter if you guys are not married.. is wrong..

  

Answer 3

Well ... It's Hard cos we used many many years to build trust...then very things is gone with seconds once you been CHEATED !! ... However we can always said FORGIVE but Hard to FORGET ! ! !

So you really need alot of time to rebuild the TRUST again..

I can tell you is not easy..... My friend !

Cheer

Answer 4

Sure I don't see why not.  I think it's fine if your wife gets humped like crazy a few times by a few men.  That loud, wild, crazy, sweaty, passionate s*x in a motel room with another man is okay right?  As long as she "owns up" to it and promises to not do that anymore.  Sure, what's the big deal?

Answer 5

Hmmm it depends on you really.If you're still in love with your spouse, and can make amends. then yes but its hard work. There will be a lot of doubt, anger and you'll always wonder where they are ect. If you can move past it - yes!

Take some time to think about it, chat to a councillor. I know how hard it is and the betrayl is so deep. Good luck and keep strong. do whats best for YOU!

Answer 6

I couldn't.

Answer 7

it depends on when she cheated. where you all together or not. how long you all have been together.  if you all have been together for a short time, a few months, then let her go. if a long time 5,8 years and this is the first time, try to see why it happened. but if you built  the relationship on trust and trust is a big issue for you then leave her because you will never trust her again and the constant  questions and signs of distrust will cause problems  and more pain for you.

Answer 8

Depends upon the nature of relationship those two people share. If one is repentant, forgiveness will protect the relationship. If the person in question is a habitual flirt, then, nothing will help. Then, u cant trust them.

Answer 9

nope. if it happened once they will find a way to do it again.

Answer 10

If they repent and confess I would give another chance.

IF they hide it you can hit the road lol

Answer 11

it is what it is,u will really never know for sure if it will happen again,because unless u solve the problems that caused it,it may happen again.i could never go back and feel the same because the trust i knew once would be over, and u would have to start all over again.

Answer 12

i wouldn't. to me cheating is cheating and if ya do it once, its over. no questions, no excuses. done.