If he is over me and wants to be done with me?

Question

why does he still text me to see if "I am ok" and when I don't answer he curses me out. And says he is never going to text me again. I don't get it. He left me and now he wants to know a month later if I am ok.

Answer 1

As he broke up with you, he wants to think that your still missing and needing him.  Guys like to have their ego's stroked at any cost.  I personally wouldn't give him the satisfaction of answering him.  Or if you must, tell him you can't talk now, as you're out with John or just on a date.  Good Luck!!

Answer 2

I am not sure how old you or this guys is.  However, it sounds like he wants to keep you available for a Booty call.  He does not want you but he does not want anyone else to have you either.  It is a mind game. If I were you I would ignore his calls unless you want to be entertained sometimes as well. If you know what I mean, if not move on with your life.