If he said he loves you?

Question

If your hubby said he loves you and you believe him when he said it because it came right from the heart and made you cry cos there was so much emotion what would you think if he said he didn't love you 3 hours later and left you?

Answer 1

I'd think that he was lying one of the two times

Answer 2

If my husband said that he loved me, then 3 hours said that he didn't really love me, and left, that will hurt the h**l out of me, and i would wonder why he said that he did in the first place, i would be heart broken completely though!

Answer 3

then you would never be able to trust him again will you ?

Answer 4

i don't really understand your question. It would be best of you used some punctuation?

but regarding the question i think many people can still be deeply in love with a person...that does not necessarily mean they have to be in an on  going relationship with them

but he is your husband not just a lover so where the he.l.l is he going then what a jerk

Answer 5

He is a good con artist

Linda

Answer 6

I would think he lied.

Answer 7

Did you guys argue afterward? Sometimes we say things we don't mean when we're really upset.  

Answer 8

I would think that he doesn't know what he wants!!  Is there someone else?  How can men just turn their feelings on and off?

Answer 9

I would figure one of two things, depending on the man:

1) He is an actor and a serious liar, who I am better off without.

or

2) He is a hurtful an immature child, who I am better off without.

So he is being deceptive or verbally abusive - he's not to be trusted with your heart under any conditions.  Start talking to a lawyer at least to get some suggestions for ways to protect yourself.

Answer 10

I would think that it is about time I packed his bags put them out on the front lawn, changed the locks, joined a dating agency and started looking for a decent man.  

Answer 11

You missed out what happened during the three hours that made him change his opinion. Or I should say made him leave you. Lady dont take me wrong but the fact remains that he loved you that is why he committed himself to you. Please also look inwards where did you go wrong and made him change his feelings

Answer 12

he only said it to make you feel better at the time of when he was thinking of leaving (to make him feel less guilty)... but that means the b*****d is not worth staying with anyway.  your better on your own and it will ALWAYS BE HIS LOSS!

Answer 13

That he's a complete k**b end and that I could do much better.

Answer 14

God I would be Heart broken but sometimes you can never tell If someone really loves you I think from this story maybe they do still love you but just had to say they did not to break free ?

Answer 15

maybe he was in a pure place when he said it. like you know how sometiems we can get out of the carnal confusion to this spiritual place where all is so clear  & love is so awesome & pure the way God meant for it to be & in there then maybe he said it cause he truly felt it. then maybe he is the type who went back out there and lost the feeling. so don't take it personal. if your feelings are hurt go in spiritually and move on.

also he might of said it from the heart and really meant it. then maybe he came back out and realized he couldn't resist the carnal way so he let you go because he knew you were born spiritual and wouldn't fit in the carnal way.

don't get weighed down by people, places or things. keep going & live.

peace

Answer 16

I would think "He sounds upset and needs help."

Answer 17

then i guess it really wasn't from the heart and emotions weren't real

Answer 18

then I would say their 2 guys, the first one was ur bf and the other one was his evil twin. pretty much impossible. or he cud be a huge a*****e

Answer 19

id be upset.

Answer 20

I would think he be playin you!

Answer 21

leave him, dont let him leave u. he is not the right man, and he broke your heart. even if u love him, he did u rong. Good Luck and i am terribly sorry for your heartache

Be Strong!

XnellyX

Answer 22

How can I tell if he loves you so?

Does he love me?

I wanna know!

How can I tell if he loves me so?

(Is it in his eyes?)

Oh no! You need to see!

(Is it in his size?)

Oh no! You make believe!

If you wanna know

If he loves you so

Its in his kiss!

(That's where it is!)

(Oh yeah! Or is it in his face?)

no girls! It's just his charms!

(In his warm embrace?)

no girls! That's just his arms!

If you wanna know

If he loves you so

It's in his kiss!

(That's where it is!)

yeah!! Its in his kiss!

(That's where it is!)

Oh, oh, oh, honey !

Squeeze him tight!

Find out what you wanna know!

promise love, and if it really is,

It's there in his kiss!

(How 'bout the way he acts?)

no no no! That's not the way!

You're not listenin' to all I'm sayin'!

If you wanna know

If he loves you so

It's in his kiss!

(That's where it is!)

Oh, yeah! Its in his kiss!

(That's where it is!)

Oh, oh, oh, hold him !

Squeeze him tight!

Find out what you wanna know!

promise love, and if it really is,

well It's there in his kiss!

(How 'bout the way he acts?)

no no no! That's not the way!

You're not listenin' to all I'm sayin'!

If you wanna know

If he loves you so

It's in his kiss!

(That's where it is!)

Oh, yeah ! Its in his kiss!

(That's where it is!)

mmmm ! Its in his kiss!

(that's where it is)

mmmm is in his kiss

Answer 23

Was he trying to say that he loves you but can't live with you, as that does happen. It probably takes a lot of understanding but maybe it's for the best.

Answer 24

I'd be pretty bummed. I'd think about what made him say that and try to talk things over and find out whats wrong. If it's over then okay the run is over but if it's fixable go ahead and apply yourself to that.

Either way ust try and find out what he really feels, if he really does love you, and how to fix it.

It's not easy so... good luck.

Answer 25

that he lied.

My sisters boyfriends use to do this. They would come in, say 'I love u', 'u r so special', then they would go have s*x, and right after he would tell her what a piece of c**p she was....

The first time it happens, I would realzie and accept that guy is a dirt bag! and not worth my love!

Answer 26

hes confused