If i send him this message will i seem desperate?

Question

well i think this guy kinda likes me at school. like every day he gives me a hug and sometimes he walks me to my class. and he flirts with me and says stuff that lets me know he's interested but lately i haven't been too sure about it because i have seen him with 3 other girls and today i saw him a couple of times but I'm not sure whether he saw me or not (i think he did though) but he didn't say hey or anything. he gave me his number the other day because my cell got cut off and he doesn't like calling house phones because he doesn't want my mom or dad to answer but i want to call him but its a long distance number and i wanted to send him a message on myspace saying

"hey i jus noticed i cant call long distance 4rm my house fone. so if u want 2 call me u HAVE 2 call my house but u tell me when u ready 2 call and i will give u my number and i'll make sure I answer da fone."

but I'm scared that mite make me sound desperate because he mite not be interested anymore.

is he still interested?? wats up with him?? will that make me seem desperate?? should i just wait??

Answer 1

I had the same type of issue.. And found out that the guy just wanted me for my body.. I found out that he was a player type. I would just let him figure it out on his own..

Answer 2

i have the exact same problem. i mean exactly. i sent him a text today (hes my best friend) and he never texted back. hes been hanging with other girls for awhile now. i hate being in this stupid situation.

Answer 3

No you won't seem too desperate, yes he's interested.  If you really like him you shouldn't wait.  Keep in mind he doesn't care about anyone but himself.

Answer 4

hmmm. i would just wait a little while longer. if you saw him hanging around other girls this might mean two things. he likes you and was trying to make you jealous, or hes a player and thats just the way he is. so be careful cuz you dont want to get hurt. i would send that message later when he shows more signs of liking you. just put it off for a while. but for now just ignore him and try not to obsess over him. he can always contact you on myspace too. its not all you that has to do the work. good luck!

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Answer 5

First of all, you should spell your message correctly so you don't look like an ignorant baffoon.

Answer 6

If he really wants to talk to you, he will call.  Not wanting to call your house phone because of parents answering sounds like he has something to hide.  And yes, the myspace message sounds desperate.  

Answer 7

no, dont send it. trust me it might kill you, and you feel like he needs to know this information, but he'll find you if he needs you. guys will make the effort and make the time, IF THEY CARE. you will seem desperate. these kind of guys get around with tons of girls...but most arent looking for a gf, just to get around and boost up their ego's, talk to her and her and her... let him come around.

Answer 8

It sounds like alot of work, the guy has to like u alot. :P

Answer 9

thats a good message because even if he isnt interested that doesnt seem desperate... i think he is still interested and you should go for it

Answer 10

The guy is just a flirt. he wants to have a good time with girls not necessarily with you. I think you should ignore him for sometime. If he really likes you, he would come back to you, else you can move on.

However if you are also looking for some good fun and flirting then you got to make sure you tease him. Don't ever sound or give guys an impression that you are available. Guys like it when girls play tough and they have to make an attempt to get the girl.

So be yourself, give yourself sometime. In the meanwhile you also hangout with  other guys and chill...