If i tell a girl i had a crush on her but she doesn't like me back and wont talk to me is it worth it ?

Question

If i risk my friendship with her im not sure what i should do she is my best friend and i dont noe how to come up with a solution.

Answer 1

If I were you, I'd find a time where she and I were alone  and I'd tell her that something has been weighing you down, and you feel you need to get it off your shoulders, but by telling her this, you hope she doesn't hold it against you, or let it interfere with your friendship.   Tell her once you have told her, you'd like it very much for her to share her feelings on this too and be open about it.

Then after you have told her your crushin on her along with her being your best friend, if she doesn't see it going anywhere other than friends, to please be honest and say so, and ask if she will help you work through the hard time it took you to open up.  Let her know you want so very much for the friendship to continue on if she doesn't think it can go any further than friends.

Good Luck

Answer 2

tell her that you have a crush on her, if she is really your best friend then i am sure that is she doesn't like you back then she will still want to be friends with you. But it is still worth being friends with her because your best friends so you care about her and she should care about you

Answer 3

well if you guys r good freinds u telling her shouldnt be a problem

Answer 4

If the friendship is important to you, and you KNOW she wont talk to you after you tell her you like her -- its not worth it. But maybe you can ask her friends to see if she has the same sort of feelings towards you. You never know, she might be crushing on you too but is afraid of how you would react!!

Answer 5

you could ask her friends to see what they think but if you are best mates then best mates are there through whatever and can share  things with them so you should still be best friends no matter what..