If i was pregnant,how would i tell my mum?

Question

I am pregnant thought i am only 14 and i don't know how i am ever going to tell my mum? PLASE HELP!!

Answer 1

"Mam, i'm preggers"

You should have known that s*x generally leads to pregnancy.

Stupid girl.

Answer 2

Go to your nearest clinic, get a free pregnancy test and discuss with the nurse your options. sit your mum down with just you and her in the room. explain that your sorry, and don't want to dissapoint her but you've made a mistake and desperatly need her help. say that your not expecting her to be ok with it you just need her to be there.

Answer 3

I would be very scarred 2 do tht but i would just tell her 1 way or another

Answer 4

There is only one way to handle this and its literally to stand there and say 'Mum, I don't know how to tell you this but I have to. I'm pregnant.'.   Although she will be shocked, angry, hurt, etc for a while, she WILL settle down - but give her a few weeks to do that and don't have an abortion in the meantime - you both need to get used to the idea because if you make a hasty decision then you both will regret it forever. The biggest thing here is give her time to get used to it. And in the meantime the usual - you have a life growing inside of you so don't smoke, drink, do drugs etc. Start taking folic acid (any chemist/supermarket/boots/superdrug/wilk... will sell it) and most importantly, after telling your Mum, if you haven't already been to your doctor then you need to go.  Good luck with motherhood & be the best you can to your baby.

Answer 5

Hi,

Are you sure you are pregnant. First, go to planned parenthood.com and type in your zip-code. They will do everything for free.

Just sit her down and say "Mom, I made a mistake and I'm pregnant". Her reaction might be bad/happy. If I was your Mom I would support  you through the whole thing. Do not get an abortion, unless, your body can't hold the baby.

Just sit her down and tel

Answer 6

Are you postin fake questions? A few hours ago, you posted a quesion saying you wanted a baby!

Answer 7

by god im so sorry tell her very delicatly and maybe shell only yell

Answer 8

keep it a secret and tell her that u got raped then shell fell srry for u

Answer 9

"Mum, I think I'm pregnant" get her to take you to doctors and get a blood test to find out.

Answer 10

Oh dear, firstly do you know how many weeks you are or the date of your last period, and as nasty as this may seem, who the father is?

Your parents are likely to be unhappy, BUT you have to tell them, and the sooner the better.

They will probably take you to the doctor's for a pregnancy test to confirm that you are, then it's a case of how farn pregnant you are as to what decisions are open to you.

The first decision, is whether to keep the baby or babies. or not. If you are past a certain number of weeks pregnant (24,

I think, then the option of abortion, or termination of the pregnancy, is out ,even if it was considered.

Now comes the next part, if you are past the abortion cut off time, you have 2 options.

1)   Keeping the baby or babies and bringing the child/ren up yourself. Now I am not going to kid you that it's going to be easy, because it isn't. However, it is do-able.

2)  The other alternative is adoption, but once the baby or babies have been passed over, I believe you are not allowed to see them until they are 16, and then only if they come looking for you.

Both decisions are hard, and should be thought about very carefully.

Now to answer the question.

It's not going to be easy, but sit her down and explain what happened, when and where the intercourse took place, and who with.

If you and the prospective father are still together, it may well be a good idea to have 1 of his parents there as well, with both you and the boy telling them both at the same time.

Whilst both parents may feel annoyed, it's not a time for recriminations. Any sorting out of that side can come later.

Right now, what is most important is you, and the developing taking place inside you.

Good luck,

Mike t.

Answer 11

wow, you're in a pickel

Answer 12

14?I got pregnant when I was 15 by a guy my dad absolutally hated.He even got a restraining order on him so he couldnt be near me.But today I am 21 and still with the father we have been living together since I was 16 and now we have 2 children together and are living a happy wonderful life!So my biggest thing was my dad not my mom.Moms seem to understand a little more than dads do.Are you still with the father...I hope you try to work things out.Lord knows raising a baby on your own now days isnt easy.And for you with school.Hey there is this really great homeschooling.You can do 9th-12th grade here they take payments of $30something a month.But you do get an actual diploma.I did this.But no matter what you will do 9th-12th grade even if you did in school.In order to get your diploma you have to do there whole program which is 9th-12th grade.But if you do it online you could have your diploma in as little as a year.www.scitraining.com.its stratford career institute.Check it out.If you may have a few options to with hold to your mom maybe she will think you really thought this out.

Answer 13

just tell her she'll probably be angry but she'll soon calm down

Answer 14

tell her straight out and get the worst over and done with

Answer 15

just tell her, she's gunna be upset but she'll eventually come around.

when i told my mom i asked her if we could go to her room and talk and i just said, please dont yell or be mad but im pregnant...she just kept saying omg over and over, but she eventually came around and everything was okay. :]

goodluck. :]

Answer 16

tell her you are pregnant! duh, what ind of loser gets pregnant at 14 anyways? if i was yor mom i would be very unhappy and might not want to speak for a while! but she will cool down eventually. she can't stay mad at you forever! look at jamie lynn spears, her mother and her still talk. (i am not sure about brittney though!

Answer 17

Well, obviously she is not that involved in your life, hasn't she communicated with you about s*x and protection?!  Just tell her "mom I'm pregnant."

Answer 18

write it down on a note before you go to school and shell read it and when you come home you can talk about it

Answer 19

i dunno but ur gunna have to tell her!

Answer 20

just tell her..she might not be the happiest but you need to get OB care immediately