If i was your daughter's boyfriend, what would been your reaction?

Question

my girlfriend and i were having our second day together after two months of being apart, in her abscence, i sent her a birthday present, and flowers. when she got back, she had her party and i was holding her from behind lovingly around the waist, her aunt comes out and basically tells me to take my hands off but nicely. next day, i'm with her at her mom's house, her mom caught her giving me oral s*x, and she's not supposed to be kissing. then her mom caught us making fun of her s*x life via text. she just turned sixteen, i'm fifteen look eighteen.

Answer 1

You need to learn some respect both of you!!  

If you were my 16 year old daughters boyfriend, you would be sitting on your a$$ in my front yard.  I would have grabbed you by the collar and the seat of your pants and out the door you would have went.  Then my daughter and i would have a wonderful conversation about respecting herself and others.  

Answer 2

She would not be able to date you in our household.  We teach Abstinence and even though it was a mistake I would have a long talk with her and she would have to work to earn my trust back.  You however would be out of the picture.

Answer 3

I'd be pissed if I caught my daughter giving her boyfriend oral--at both of them. The thing with the arms around her and making fun of my s*x life--lmao. I would laugh about it, too. But the oral is way too much. She would of been grounded and paddled to infinity. Lmao.

Answer 4

when you were caught receiving oral s*x you would no longer be welcome in my house. You should try to gain respect of your girlfriends parent and that was not the way to do it.

Answer 5

Personally?  I'd request you both undergo STD testing and promise to use protection during s*x.  I'd be happy to provide condoms and if my child wanted to go on the pill (in addition to using condoms), I'd be happy to take her to the doctor.

I'd also expect that you be willing to reciprocate sexually out of a matter of respect.  If my daughter goes down on you, I'd hope you are willing to do the same for her.

That said, I'm perhaps a bit more liberal.  I certainly wouldn't forbid a child from kissing.

Answer 6

at 16, you cant force your daughter not to see someone, they will see them whether you like it or not, and to think you have more control otherwise you are out of your mind. the parents shouldnt be spying on their childrens texts as that is a privacy respect issue.

Answer 7

After the oral s*x you would have been gone forever!

nfd♥

Answer 8

I'd get excited and say well it looks like you two are ready for adult hood and then I'd expect you to act like an adult in almost every situation. The first thing I would do is take you both to the clinic for thorough exams and birth control. Of course unless you are ready to be a father, then you don't need the birth control. Then we'd start planning wedding dates and I'd expect you to be highly involved. I'd visit with your parents and if you didn't have anyone around I'd visit with you as if you were a grown man. I would take the two of you to the local s*x/novelty shop and school you on the 'real' world of s*x. After all isn't s*x the most important thing in your life at the moment.  EVENTUALLY we'd start picking out baby names and looking at future homes. We would see a financial advisor to instruct the two of you on the amount of money you must earn to support a family, this includes food, diapers, bottles, daycare, car insurance, home insurance, life insurance, retirement. YOU WOULD BE EXPECTED TO ACT LIKE A MATURE MAN IN EVERY SITUATION. If you didn't meet my expectations I'd let you know that while you may not want to be responsible you will be held accountable just as a grown man would be. You would be responsible for clothing my daughter, taking her to the doctor, taking her shopping, paying her phone bill, and most importantly you would be responsible and expected to be there for my daughter the same way my husband is there for me. If you didn't meet those expectations well...let's just say you had better have a relationship built on something stronger than a ********. R U READY FOR ADULT HOOD? Because you're playing adult right now.  

Answer 9

I would have kicked you out of my house.  It does not matter if you did not ask her to do it...you could have said "no" when she was making her move.  A 16 year old girl who does that in her own home respects nobody..not even you.

Answer 10

First off it doesn't matter how old you look. You are 15 and she is 16. I think If I would have just saw the hands around the waist I might not have had a problem.

As far as catching her giving you oral s*x. You would be out the door on your ear and lucky if my husband didn't kick your butt.

You go over to someone else's house you are supposed to act respectful of their house. The catching the two of you and the text messages you would not be allowed in my house again, and not allowed to be alone with my daughter.

EDIT: You are going to marry her whether her family likes it or not? LOL!! You are only 15 you can't even drive a car or get a job. I say six months you two will be broke up.

If I would have decided who I was going to marry when I was 15, it would have been a decision based on immaturity and lack of life experience and the marriage would probably not last.

Answer 11

ROFLMAO

Never do something to cause a problem, huh? LIke getting a ******** in her parents house? DUH

Married? Ha!!!  That's hilarious. I give it a few months till you find some other chicken head.

Hates her family...oh no they hate your music....wowie. Grow up some kid.

I'd have thrown you out by your hair and that nasty little daughter of mine would be locked up till 18, when she'd be shown the door. I'd show up at your parent's place and tell them if you ever set foot in my yard again I'd have you on a restraining order.

Answer 12

com on man.... dont be silly

Answer 13

I dont think you care what her family thinks or you would respect them - - start by not having oral where you're going to get caught.  Certainly if you cared what they thought you would've listened to each warning.  Honestly I think you're just here to brag that you're getting laid.  If you're looking for a "kudos" you won't get one from me.

Answer 14

You would definitely be history... Especially someone so reckless!  Why would you feel okay to encourage this girl to get in trouble?  Naturally she should use her head for more than a hat rack, but geesh - you seem to be the type that selfishly pushes your own agenda.  Why are you allergic to being respectful, because you're 15?  That's no excuse...

Then again - you are probably trolling... 2 points!

Answer 15

It sounds like you don't respect her parents or their rules so no... You would not be welcomed to date my daughter.

Answer 16

to tell u the truth i wouldnt approve, seeing that if i were the mom i would think u of being disrespectful and unappropiate for a daughter who i would think is in the age to have someone a bit more responsable and older.

dont get me wrong, im only 15, but yeha, my opinion:P