If i was your friend would you think i'm trying to get at your man?

Question

i was over my friend house and her boyfriend was there. they was talking about his hair. she said it was messed up and when i seen it i said it's cute she got mad. she said you don't tell somebody man something is cute but you can say its nice.

he was down loading some music and i heard a song and said i love that song and that kind of music. as he continue to play it here and there he would ask "have i heard it before" and she got mad. she said you don't conversate with another female man.

am i crazy or is it true that when you're sitting around your friend and man you're not suppose to say anything to him

Answer 1

Sounds like your friend is very insecure

Answer 2

Leave him alone. Talk to your friend or get the h**l out of there. Show some respect. Did you come to talk to him or to your

friend. Don't be so disrespectful.

Answer 3

Usually you can talk to your friends man.  I do all the time.  She knows I not going to try to take him away from her.  Our other friend we have together, she does not trust because the way she acts.  She give off signals like she wants him for herself.  Take your friend aside and let her know you don't want him.  Try to watch any signal you give out like winking and leaning over the counter, all the flirting stuff.

Answer 4

I'd say your friend is the crazy one not you. I would say if she is that way then she needs to not have any of her friends around him at all then.

Answer 5

Haha..Well it sounds like to me she is just being a little to protective over her b/f.. seems to be that some get scared because there afraid that the guy will either find the other person more interested in. Like with your situation. Your being nice, just trying to carry a conversation in "her" eyes she afraid you might be trying to steal him from her. I think you should talk to her and find out why she is reacting the way she is. **Communication** main key :)  

Answer 6

You're friend is paranoid and self conscious. End of story. You have every right to converse with a friend's boyfriend as essentially they become part of the "clique", you might as well befriend them!  

Answer 7

u friend is just jelous thats all she will get over it  

Answer 8

You're friend has no confidence in herself.  She obviously is a really jealous person, and any girl who talks to her boyfriend, she thinks is going to try to take him from her.  Just tell her you're just talking to him, and you have NO love interest in him.  She needs to settle down.  Lol.

Answer 9

ya ur friend is crazy... not u

Answer 10

you did nothing wrong. Just your friend is over possessive and insecure. She has to learn to deal with it, else she would go mad.

If she is a good friend then tell her to change.. if she is not, then forget it, she would learn on her own

Answer 11

It sounds to me like she's overly jealous. I don't think you did anything wrong.

Complimenting someone is not the same as flirting with them.