If i wasn't physically attracted to him at first, does that mean he's not the one?

Question

He was cute but not my type?...He was very cocky at first but very charming. I found it hard to be physically attracted to him. But after 6 months i started falling inlove? Or maybe just attached? I donno, I'm confused at the end I was starting to feel more for him then I thought....what do you think?

Answer 1

Yes it is possible to fall in love with a guy even though he is not your type, it also means you are growing up cause love is not about looks. At first I was not into my husbands looks but he was the nicest guy then he looked better to me everyday.

Answer 2

I think he should get out and find someone who feels passionately for him the way he probably does for you.

Attraction can build over time, but if you're not interested in a lifetime of frequent wild s*x with him ... do him a favour and break up.

Answer 3

I wasn't physically attracted to my husband at first either... but after hanging out and being friends, he wore on me... still together 11 1/2 yrs.

Answer 4

Love isn't base solely on physical attraction. I wasn't that physically attracted to my husband when I first met him either. It was only after I spent time with him and learned things about him that I found him appealing. Now, he just gets better looking every day to me. Love is blind and you need to think about what you FEEL for this man as opposed to what you see.

Answer 5

To be "the one" means it's the person who you can go the distance (test of time and trouble) with--have that special relationship and great s*x over the long haul.  It is not the person who initially captures your fancy.

Answer 6

There is no definite ans when it comes to relationship. What I think about it wont help at all. You are the one to decide what you want, how you feel and etc. Give yourself some time and you will be able to work it out on your own. Good luck.