If my boyfreind does not participate in my family functuions do we have a relationship. we are 57 yrs. old.?

Question

my son brought my 1st greatgrand son to my home to meet the family. they live out of town,boyfreind did not even show up,yet he wants me to spend time with his daughter.I needed to have some furniture moved for new carpet, he did not offer to help.or offer to find someone to help. is this relationship worth saving. we break up every other week!!!every time something needs my attention he calls with some mess to add to the stress, like we need to go our seprate ways, or I need to see you now.or else..When I visit he stays on his computer and gives me the remote....

Answer 1

is this real? If you were 57 wouldnt you give more details I dont even see a question or a problem you need help with.......need more information about all this

Answer 2

I agree with the first answer.. this isn't even a question... and you shouldn't have a great grandson at 57 unless there is a lot of hanky panky in your family. Please think before you speak.