If my intuition is telling me something is wrong?

Question

should I listen to it?

Answer 1

I find whenever I don't listen to it I end up seeing it was right. I'm not gonna give a direct answer simply because I see this of a question you should answer for yourself.

Answer 2

Never ignore your intuition....ever.

It could ruin your life or someone else's.

Answer 3

Your intuition is a survival instinct. You should listen to your mind and your body.

Answer 4

Listen yes,but don't act on it unless you have solid evidence that your intuition is right.

Answer 5

Yes you should.

When my parents split up i had a funny feeling about a couple of blokes my mum went with, one ended up cheating on her and the other stole $6000 from her.

Also, i had a bad feeling about my friend one night, she got molested. Listen to them. Really. Obviously they're there for a reason.

Answer 6

its the big full moon/really close now

Answer 7

you have that feeling for a reason...Dont ignore it.  

Answer 8

You know what?  This is a dangerous arena and people can tell you to follow your instincts but assumption and presumption are the mother of all mess ups.  

Should you be concerned that you are being cheated on by your partner, rather do something for yourself.  What I suggest is that you pray about it first and seek God on the matter. If there is tension between you the show respect and love regardless.  It is possible your partner could just be stressed out at work and taking it out on you which is the norm - they always go to the one closest to them.  If there is a problem with someone else, by your being so kind and nice and helpful, you will merely heap coals on your partners head.  

I would not advise confrontation.  It is dangerous, because if there is nothing you are acting out of jealousy and will start an ugly thing happening. The wisest thing is to show support no matter what you might THINK is happening and be loving and kind and nice and thoughtful.  I think that sometimes we listen to the wrong voices and they lie to us and deceive us into imagining all kinds of things that 99% of the time do not even exist.  Remember you have the upper hand here. Your partner is still with you and you still have the opportunity to make things work, be exciting and also be supportive and nice. Choose to be positive especially in a negative situation.  Busy yourself with things that take your mind off assumption and presumption and be sober minded and level headed when it comes to reacting to something that might not be. I am merely using this scenario as an example. The scenario might be quite different - it might be a boy/girlfriend who could be messing you around and you are not yet attached to the person or even living with. That's a different thing. A marriage situation is very different.

Walking in fear of something is not healthy.  You need to build up your self esteem and the only way that will happen is by choosing to  be positive and not listening to negative feelings and emotions that can and more likely will be destructive to this situation. Every time you have a negative thought substitute it with a positive one and refuse to think the worst! It takes practice; but to do it often enough and you are guaranteed to win. Write it off if this is a first time, yet should the same thing come up again then confront it in a way that doesn't back the person into a corner but requires a response. How you word yourself is what will matter. Be careful about what people suggest you do.  A lot give foolish answers! Be wise as a serpent and as cunning as a fox!  (That's biblical!)