If not pregnant then what???

Question

I've been having unusual periods for 3 months now, am on bcp so they're usually regular and about 3 days with heavy flow. Past 2 months had only light pink bleeding followed by brown spot,then this month had 3 days but not heavy as usual. Have been having blue veins on thighs,hip/pelvic area,arms,chest and b*****s through nipples,slight nausea only every once in a while, peeing a lot, wake up and sit on toilet for about 2 minutes! lol, extremely tired for the past couple of months,MOODY!!! EMOTIONAL!!! Tingly nipples that comes and goes, b*****s are feeling SLIGHTLY tender today but not enough to bother and af is only in about 2 1/2 weeks. Have been taking hpts and blood tests, bloods negative,some hpt's negative and the very sensitive one (10) very very very faint positive and then negative again. Can't drink coffee in the morning it makes me feel nauseous, tea is nice though,and it has to be VERY sweet!!! Craving sweet stuff, and I NEVER eat sweats,just a chocolate once in a while, now I can't get enough hot chocolate into my body...Slight weight gain, about 3-4 pounds in about 2 days and I didn't eat more than usual. I am tired of getting negative tests and faint positives! Wouldn't it be showing by now? Also, if I press down on my uterus it feels like there's something in there on the right side, like a round ball but it doesn't hurt. It's not a cyst. I've had them and I know what it feels like. Also, I've been having very weird dreams lately, last night as hubby and I were sleeping, I dreamt the cat jumped on the bed and then rubbed her paws against my tummy and I remember thinking/dreaming I am pregnant, but now I can't remember if it was a dream or if it really happened!!! They say when hubby picks up weight and you crave sweets you're pregnant with a girl (I think), hubby has gained about 4 pounds and he's eating LESS!!!! So anyone have any advice on any of what I said, pleeeeease help me!!!! Anyone been pregnant and kept getting negative tests and abnormal/unusual periods?? Also, I am having LOTS of creamy milky white lotiony cm,and slight lower abdominal and lower back cramping. Last month I had only this white CM no EWCM nothing. I think it's gonna be the same this month. Does it mean I'm not ovulating or what??? PLEASE HELP A VERY CONFUSED GIRL?? No rude/sarcastic comments please. THANKS A BUNCH GIRLS!!

Answer 1

Trust me--this world is soooooooo confusing when it comes to figuring it all out! I have been ttc'ing with DH for a long time now & have many experiences like you are describing here.

I also have endometriosis though & I do know that (for me) that the endo isn't helping the situation & causes some of the s***w up.

One month I even ballooned up (b***s & all) & then had a craving for nutella & baby carrots (DISguisting)!! Or I go through HUGE craving times but then nothing.

I guess I'm doing nothing but commiserating with you--forgive me but I feel for ya & hope that you are able to figure this out.

One of the things I have done every so often is have a hormone level test (its a blood test) done at the doctor's. it is to see what's going on in there as much as possible. Sometimes for me its b/c my progesterone & estrogen are just uneven & that can create the pregnancy like symptoms.

Answer 2

Yes all that happend to me with my 3rd child. You need a scan. I had a very bad preg inside me. I dont want to worry you. My baby boy died. But they do say if any line does not matter how it is. Then you are preg. But get checked out. A scan is very very important. You will be fine. Try a test again in two week. It could be your body is trying to act preg as you want it so bad.

Answer 3

It seems weird that ur still on bcp's and having what i think is pregnancy symptoms,i would go doctors if ur getting negatives and positives somethings going on have you had a scan?CM or even EWCM means ur ovulating i had the EWCM in july and was pregnant i unfortunately i lost that pregnancy in aug i also had CM but unfortunately lost that one as well like i said i would go doctors and get checked out good luck.

Answer 4

yeah i think it would be a good idea to ask your doctor to send you for an ultrasound.

im 18 weeks pregnant and i never experienced half your symptoms, i was tiered, i peed heaps and my b***s hurt, that was it. now all i do is cry alot.

definately get a referral. if you cant get a referral, try going to a baby doc with an ultrasound machine in their room, and see if they will give you one.

it will give you peace of mind if anything to see if there is or isn't anything there. its good to see it with your own eyes. sometimes if you think your pregnant your brain can trick you into believing your symptoms are there. i found i had that alot every time my period was late years before i found out i was pregnant.