If nothing in life works in your favor and everything is so hard to do what does this mean for a male 19?

Question

If nothing in life works in your favor and everything is so hard to do what does this mean for a male 19?

Answer 1

there are things that you can achieve in life,

life is not supposed to be perfect,

you need to have challenges and thats the beauty of life

a 19 yr old male has a great life ahead if he chooses so!

Answer 2

You are definitely on the wrong Path/Way.

When life feels like you are climbing up a mountain with a bag full of rocks....." I think I better think IT out again " (fiddler on the roof movie song).

The only bit of advice I will give you is to ask God to help you and keep on asking until He does..... it is better to ask Him sooner than later!

Remember.... it is all about choices.....

May the Force be with you+

Answer 3

if you do what you have always done you will get what you always got.

let me rephrase. if what you are doing is not working for you, change what you are doing so that it works for you. take stock of your life, what you are good at, your faults (and be honest if at least to yourself), and your dreams/ aspirations. then form a plan that takes you in the direction that you wish to go. figure out how to reach your dreams and start building that ladder to your star. if you fail start over again. never give up, nothing is impossible. highly improbable, yes, but with confidence and faith you can do anything. never say can't, say i will.  

Answer 4

You may have relatives or friends that have very high expectations of you. Best approach is to obtain help and advice from professional people, but at the same time, put in extra effort and time into what you have been doing. Else make some changes to your life-style, job or subjects your studying. Your just 19 still young, so hang in there and ride some storms--scoldings, constructive criticisms or others. Too common in this rat-race and competitive society. Also take up a new hobby or skill, as it may open up more opportunities for you. Cheers!

Answer 5

Just don't ever give up. Face each situation and adapt, make all the right choices. For every little thing just remember to make the right decision. Whatever it is you are struggling with, find something to help you fix it. Just remember to not give up.

Answer 6

Be TOUGH

make sure if your betrayed, down & out-- gather all the strength left & give it another shot, again!!!!

There's always a chance till you're breathing.

Answer 7

I think it means that you might want to relax your standards for yourself; examine why you work so hard for the things you do; how does having or achieving them improve your life overall?

When you've lived a little longer (don't you hate hearing this! - I'm sorry!) hindsight may teach you that with the pauses, you were protected from a few inferior choices.

This is a difficult transition time as it is. You are probably feeling the impact of making your own choices. Allow for the change. Decisions are difficult but not impossible.

Be happy. I wish you the best.

Answer 8

I think it means that  you should change your perspective, your attitude, your environment and keep trying until you you finally do it.

Answer 9

This too is a part of life. Close your eyes. Take a deep breath. And keep going.  

Answer 10

...you need to get a job, find an apartment and have responsibilities...

...or you can join the military and really see what LIFE is like when not

in control of your own LIFE...

...good luck...

Answer 11

Thats a challenge. There are thousands ways to acheive your goal. 19 is a sunrise and you must enjoy your beatiful days. Wake up guy... do the best you can and you'll become the winner.

Answer 12

You might be suffering from depression. And if I were you, I would make an appointment with local specialist to check this out. However, no one is always happy. We all go through difficult periods in our lives. Sometimes, all it takes is a hug from someone important in your life to break the darkness and have a strength to move on with your life. However, most of the time you just shake yourself off and try again over and over. Life is not easy, that is why you should be strong to take it on and win. Good luck, sweetheart!

Answer 13

Not doomed yet. Being at 19, you still have a long journey ahead. Look beyond the current and keep on hoping. Hopes will keep you going.