If one of your good friends gets mad at you a lot for dumb reasons is she really a good friend?

Question

well one of my friends says she is my best friend but she gets mad at me a lot for stupid reasons like.... she got mad at me for adding her boyfriend on myspace because i have never met him in person she said i shouldn't of added him. she also got mad at me for hanging out with one of her other friends so i don't no if she is a true friend or what. what do you think?

Answer 1

idk, she mite be one of those fair-weather friends. a friend is a friend, their allowed to get mad but they shouldnt get mad about everything maybe try talking to her about it and if she gets mad about that to then she probably isnt a good listener or a good friend

Answer 2

Yeah who needs that...Just bail

Answer 3

I think that she was right in getting angry for you adding her boyfriend.  Why would you do that?  But I don't know why should would get mad at you for talking to her other friends.  I noticed that you said that they were HER friends.  I think that there may be more to that than what you are telling us.  And since you overstepped the boundaries of your friendship by getting close to her boyfriend, you probably overstepped your boundaries with HER friends too.  You need to learn to respect good friends.  They are hard to find.

Answer 4

Its not that shes not a real friend. shes just a bad one. She probablly has alot of insecureity issues, and thats why alot of dumb things bug her. If i were you i would just try and talk to her about, but if she won't listen then you don't need that drama in your life so find other poeple to hang out w/  

Answer 5

tell her she's overreacting

then ditch her if you need to, cuz you don't need to deal with her

Answer 6

I don't think so, if she doesn't trust you then i don't think she is a loyal friend.

Answer 7

she is still a good friend, and needs a good friend to be there for her.  she sounds like she is insecure and is afraid of losing those she cares about i.e. she thinks that if you ad her boyfriend on myspace he will somehow start liking you more than her and if you hang with other friends they will steal you away from her.... don't look at her as a bad friend, just an insecure girl who needs some guidance and an example from YOU, on how to be a good friend--- which means understanding her issues, and sticking with her even when things are rough and she is annoying you.