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Question

should intercast lovers,who wants to marry ,arrange their marriage by themselves in a grand way,in the case of that there parents are marrying younger ones arrange marriage same cast happily,but even after that not saying a single word about elder one, both the would be life partners are doing respectful job.what positive and negative aspects they may be come across ?

Answer 1

Hi,

Love is always Blind. There is no problem in marrying one from outer cast iff you are never mind about what others will talk n think about you. Remember one thing Life is a challenge face it boldly. Sice you are asking about positive and negative aspects, I will share some of the.

positive

1. you will be happy since you got what you desired.

2. you will learn something about new cast

3. you will get support of law n will get some quota in gov. seats.

Negative

1. your parents will suffer a lot

2. your children may suffer.

3. Social status for family will decrease....

But Important is your happy and your ambitions.. so go ahead listen the song of your heart. and dance with that song.

Wishing you all the best.

Answer 2

Let me be sure I understand your question correctly.  You would like to marry outside of your &#039;class&#039;, as in someone who has less money and comes from a family of &#039;lesser&#039; status.  Is that right?

If so, as a Canadian I feel that you have the right to marry for love, and that money and social standing aren&#039;t important.  

If your parents do not agree, I feel that you should go ahead and do it yourselves.  It should be as grand a wedding as you and your fiance want, and can reasonably afford.  

I&#039;m sorry your parents aren&#039;t happy for you or with your match, but given enough time, when they see your happiness, I&#039;m sure they will &#039;come around&#039;.  

I wish you Good Luck and many Blessings on your Special Day.