If people ask me if I'm g*y, should I tell them?

Question

I don't want to live a lie my whole life, but I'm a little worried about others people perception of me.

Also, how can I get women to stop liking me? I notice that they seem to be real into me even though I'm g*y and I don't want to have to break their hearts once they figure out I'm not straight.

Answer 1

i tell them i live a Alternative Life Style to get them to think about it.  

Answer 2

be trueeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Answer 3

ppl havnt asked me directly but hav "hinted" at it

i tell thm no even tho i am

Answer 4

If they ask you and seem concerned, then I'd tell them. How might they seem concerned? Well, did they ask you in private? Do they have a reason for knowing? (I'd actually ask them why they want to know)

Let the ladies follow, as long as you don't seem interested, they'll follow for about a week and then their crush will expire and they'll go follow someone else.

Answer 5

fucckk what others think. sure, tell them ur g*y. and to any girls that come up to u, say something like, ur gonna make my boyfriend jealous, sweetheart.

lmao

best of luck dude.

Answer 6

I have a brother that is g*y. He's the type you would never even think to be g*y, because he is a big guy, attractive and doesn't have any mannerisms of the stereotype. I actually feel sorry for him because he has to somewhat hide who he is. His words, not mine. He just goes along his business and doesn't do anything to attract girls. He is in his 40s and has had a couple of long term relationships. He just acts pleasant when girls hit on him, what else can he do? He's too shy to actually say something like, "I am g*y, leave me alone." I wish he would just say, "I'm not hetero, leave me alone." I want you to say what my brother doesn't have the nerve to say- "I"m g*y."

Answer 7

I would just tell them...if it breaks friendships, so be it...they weren't that great of friends to begin w/ if they can't accept you for who you are...

Answer 8

Well, I'm glad you're thinkin' about tha ladiez!

Haha, either way you should do what's comfortable for you.

If you feel you are not ready to tell people, then don't.

Just remember that more likely (well, hopefully that would be the case, I don't know the sort of crew you hang out with) than not they will accept you, they are your friends.

And if they aren't your friends, what the heck are they doing asking you? Seriously.

And if they ARE asking you, they have probably already figured it out, anyway. It may just be like a "hey, it's okay if you're g*y, no one's going to mind" sort of sentiment.

I'm sure most every one you know will accept you, though. And if they don't, they may not be the best friend to have.

Answer 9

That depends on how comfortable you are with your sexuality. I think it would do some major internal damage to live a lie just because you're worried about how you are perceived by some people whose beliefs are based on ignorance.

Also, the only woman who would be heartbroken over you being g*y would be ones with already extremely low self-esteem, and you cannot help that.  

Answer 10

i generally try to avoid this conversation with people... no need to have to explain myself/justify myself

Answer 11

if youre comfortable and ready, then go for it!

if youre not, be careful who you tell.