If s*x doesn't make men committ, then why do they levae if you hold out?

Question

People always say---Don't have s*x too soon. Or a guy won't take you seriously if you sleep around or sleep with him too early on. Yet, when you take your time and try to hold out---guys still don't take you seriously because they think you're playing games or are a tease. What gives? How can you SUCCESSFULLY meet men who want to date and have a relationship without giving up s*x so soon?

Answer 1

You have s*x when the time is right for both of you

SteveC

Answer 2

Because vital s*x is a part of the overall picture of the person.  It is like qualifying for a loan, if you don't met all the requirements then you are disqualified.  

It is very simple, when you first meet the guy, you tell them exactly what you want and follow up with the same actions.  Don't say you want a serious relationship and doing childish games.

Answer 3

a perfect grown up person will not have any prejudices. if you need to play in order to achieve something then it is not worth it, no matter you achieve. you have failed to achieve the most important - the perfect mature person by your side. less mature will just force you to be a parent and it is not nice to f+ your own child. if breastfeeding, no f+ing. simple. need a mum, no f+ing.

Answer 4

the ones that only want s*x leave when you hold out, everybody else just bang someone else until you give it up, J/K but there are some guys that will respect your mind and stay around regardless of you holding out

Answer 5

Those who leave were simply looking for s*x to begin with. They weren't worth having. At least not at this point in their lives. That's not to say that some of these guys won't come around later. Hormones drive the young guys.  

Answer 6

you pretty much answered your question there -- meet MEN, not boys.

Answer 7

They leave because if you have s*x too soon they'll think your a hobag, of course.

Answer 8

"In essence, that's the game that most men Like

to play with women."

"Only, some are more patient than others."

"Trust me, you don't want a man that is impatient

with you sexually."

"At the same time, you can't be impatient with men,

wanting them to commit to you."

Answer 9

Boys don't know the difference.

Men respect your decision to wait if u are up front about it.  For a lot of them there is no "too soon".