If she loved me she wouldn't have cheated right?

Question

My ex is convinced that she is in love with me and that she always has been and always will be. I say she can't be since she cheated. I know a lot of people will agree with me but does anyone believe her?

Answer 1

She may love you as much as she's capable of.  She apparently doesn't, however, understand the meaning of the words..loyalty, honesty and integrity.  

Cheating has less to do with whether or not they love you, and more to do with whether they have more morals than a hamster.

Answer 2

It is possible to love someone and still cheat. I think it is likely that your ex was needing or looking for something in the relationship that she couldn't get from you. So, she looked for it elsewhere. It doesn't necessarily mean she stopped loving you. She just wanted to feel loved for a while.  

Answer 3

Ex's are ex's for a reason and if they cheated then they shouldn't get a second chance only b/c once a cheater always a cheater and that's a well known fact!

Answer 4

SHE CAN LOVE YOU AND STILL CHEAT TO FILL A VOID THAT SHE WAS NOT GETTING FROM YOU...  

Answer 5

I might be the only one who will agree with her, but sometimes things happen people get caught up in the moment and not think of the consequences of their actions.  Its shellfish yes, but could happen.  Does that mean you should take her back not necessarily you leaving will teach her how not to get caught up in moments like that.  follow your heart on what is best for you to do.

Answer 6

I have a friend who cheats on his wife. He loves her and is happy..

So I guess you can cheat and be in love. But something is missing,

or he would not cheat.  

Answer 7

any person who loves their man would not cheat or want to see him hurt.i wouldn't believe her, she chose someone else over u, made the choice to cheat, planned it, and did it.if she loved u, she never would have cheated in the first place, there are other ways of dealing with problems but cheating.

Answer 8

i think if someone were in love they wouldnt do anything to hurt someone else like cheating.

you should move on and dont bring her back into your life

Answer 9

If she loved you, she would not have cheated.  

Answer 10

You can cheat and still love someone.  Cheating is more about personal insecurities and feeling that you need validation than it is about someone else.  Just like jealousy is almost always about feelings of inadequacy....

just a possiblity

Answer 11

To truely love someone, you wouldnt do anything to ever hurt them,,,,,, you would be loyal to them,obv she wasnt, i say move on and find another is is true to you and worthy of giving you what u will to them.

Answer 12

i don't know how many times you need to hear it to try to convince yourself but is she loved you she would NOT have cheated

Answer 13

I believe she may love you, yeah she cheated but maybe she knows now it was a big mistake.  It's obvious you care for her give her a second chance.

But, if she does it again dump her quickly.

Answer 14

Wrong !

Did she engage in s*x with the other person?

Is there a possibility she may be pregnant ?

She must be honest!

How long did she cheat on you?

People cheat for different reasons

There is a song; "You only hurt the one you love"

To be human is to err

She made a mistake (hopefully)

However if this mistake continues.. she has to go

Married couples cheat and are forgiven by their spouses

You must create dialog with her

You must know why she cheated

Do not think you are at fault

You are not at  fault..you did not cheat

She is guilty, & must apologize & never cheat again

Will you honestly forgive her ?

Believe me you may forgive..but you will never forget !