Recently, I was going to my school registration and I saw a friend. I didn't get a chance to talk to him then, but a little later, he bursts into my field of view right beside me and says hi to his friend behind me. Thinking he was talking to me at first, I turn and say hey. But to my embarrassment, he takes a long step back, chuckles a bit and goes on talking to his other friend, ignoring me completely. About a minute later, he talked to me, but still. Is this an okay thing to do, in your mind?
Now, a bit of history. I moved to where I live about a year ago and I'm going into grade 11. I've never easily made a lot of new friends, and am quite shy. But I meat everyone fast enough and became "acquaintances" and talk with everybody, but don't hang out with many people a lot outside of class. This guy is one of my closest friends (still not too close), or I used to think that, but he eventually started calling me antisocial and weird. I'm the first to admit that I don't talk to people very well if I don't know them too well, but I’m trying to change that and improve myself. But all I get from him is "ANTISOCIAL, ANTISOCIAL, ANTISOCIAL†I’m beginning to think poorly of myself, and my self confidence is completely shot. He is one of the few people I know (and he's in my class by the way) who I can talk to whenever I want (usually) but I don't know what to do. I feel like he doesn't value my friendship at all. Kind of makes me feel like a nucence. Any suggestions?
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