If someone said this?

Question

I love this guy but fell out with him and hurt him.We have been apart for three/four months.I asked someone else if he still loved me/ had feelings for me.This other friend said 'he cares'.Does that mean that there is hope for me to get back with him?

Answer 1

Talk to your guy and don't let third parties to be involved!! If you still care about him go meet up with him and tell him how you feel. That's the only way to find out for sure!!! Good luck (but have to say that your friend saying that he still cares is a positive thing! isn't it?)  

Answer 2

Hard to say.  The friend might have tried to spare your feelings or your ex may genuinely care as anyone might care about someone they once loved.  Have you spoken to the old boyfriend at all to see if the two of you have any "unfinished business"?

If not, it would be safe to assume he has moved on.

Answer 3

The only person who can answer this question is the guy himself. If you don't pluck up enough courage to call or text him and know where he hangs about, you can pretend to bump into him by chance. You definitely should try to get in touch with him somehow, because otherwise you'll be left wondering "what if". You'll either get back with him or not and if not, you'll be sure you have to move on. Good luck.

Answer 4

oftentimes a friend knows and now that u know he still cares, its time to connect, call him and see. there is always a chance,when two people still want to be together and care.

Answer 5

why not call him and ask him?  what's the worst he could say "no" and then where will you be no worse off than you are now...torturing yourself dissecting an innocent phrase like "he cares"

Answer 6

call him

or if you dont wanna do that find a way to bump into him

and find out what he thinks

Answer 7

After you`ve hurt someone its hard to gain that trust and respect back. maybe you should give him a call or text and see if he texts back if he does that means he cares if not try and move on. it will prob be hard but might stop the hurt your feeling to find somebody else. dont listen to what his or your friends say because they may stir things up so you dont get back together. i think there maybe hope for you but you need to contact him to see if theres a chance. good luck i hope things work for you.!!!!

Answer 8

im sorry but why dont you leave him alone??  im sure it hurt him, hes probalby better now your gonna stir it back up cause you feel like it?

Answer 9

you hurt him once already, let him heal and l**k his wounds.

Maybe you should move on.

My 2 cents.

Answer 10

You need to talk to this person; and if you keep asking the same question here, at least post more details - your question is very generic.

Answer 11

There may be hope.  You should speak with him and not other people if you want to be certain.  I recommend treading carefully, as you've already hurt him once.