If the ppl on here are TRULY happy adults why feel the need to moan CONSTANTLY?

Question

you know who you are!!!!!!!

Answer 1

This has nothing to do with adoption.

Answer 2

That's why this is a forum and its open so that everyone the happy or the unhappy, the moaners and the groaners can say whats on their minds and get reply from others.

Sometime we need to just reach out to others and not be so hard on them despite the situation and realized that the poor has issues and the rich has issues also if we are so happy why is it that we're not reaching out to someone else to spread our happiness don't we want others to be happy also or the happiness is just about us, me me me let the adoptees speak their minds we can learn so much from them and lets stop calling them moaners and groaners.

Mrs Robinson to be you sound more aggravated than the adoptees sound like you need to get a grip on reality i guess you was not adopted so you can never imagine their experiences, i was not adopted i had both parents all my life but i have compassion for humane nature and its natural for person to express their feeling that's what make them human so please please let them be and together lets hold hands with them and make it a little easy for them to express their feelings, or together let pin out lips and erase the negativeity.

Answer 3

Because I think this is their only venue to vent, no consequences when you don't know the people you are venting too.

Answer 4

Yes...  Moaning about moaning...  Have you nothing better to do?

Answer 5

because everybody has problems, but some people dont let them get to them, and some people do.

Answer 6

This self hatred thing of yours has got to stop.  I'm really worried about you.

Answer 7

Even the happiest person can experience times of sadness and depression. however I do believe one thing- no matter what happens to us we can choose joy- however at times we just need someone to come along side of us- I am so thankful that people did yesterday with Problem child!!

Answer 8

Because I want attention. Everything has to be about me, me, me!

Answer 9

ya.  whats with that

Answer 10

Indeed, why ARE you moaning again today?

Answer 11

truely happy people encounter problems in life too...

there is a fine line between moaning and seeking advice to calm your fears!

Answer 12

I'm not moaning - you appear to be the one ranting and raving with so many outrageous 'questions' (I use the term lightly) - why on earth are you so upset with what others say??

I know who I am - but do you know who you are - as you have so many different accounts now - I'm sure it must be hard for you to keep track???

Good luck with that.

Answer 13

I don't whine.  And if you are truly happy, then why are you whining about moaners?

Answer 14

look who's talking... Uhm, I find easier to rant on about a bunch of troubles to people that I don't have to look at. Plus, I can get the drama off my chest....Truly, there really isn't to many humans that will listen, although, there is to many that will complain and spread T.M.I without hesitating to inform the universe of your suffering. People want to be heard, YET, know one wants to listen.

"happy, so they say, adults".

Answer 15

Quit with the constant moaning and just be happy!

Answer 16

I'm not sure.  But I suspect you are a terribly unhappy adult.  Really--stop moaning, willya?

Answer 17

I'm just curious....you say Mrs Robinson 2 be...so assuming you're getting married....is you future husband in therapy? I mean...I personally could not deal with someone who is always downing other ppl ...so let me get this straight...you're world is perfect and it's the rest of the world that is screwed up....and really you can't be that happy...you come across as someone with issues...even in reading ALL your questions..I don't have to see your body language...it's obvious that you're not a settled person as you put out to be.....

Do you have a hobby...maybe a wedding to plan?

Answer 18

I am happy.....

There are Things in my life I find Irritating....and feel are justified to be angry about.... Pissy schools and poor mental health services....

I am Happy---

There are things I grieve for.... Like the innocent heart of a little girl that called me mommy for the first time at the age of 5..... and the world that cannot care enough about her to be supportive.

I am Happy---

but I cry for her, and the fact her little brain was hurt and abused so badly that she cannot see the world from any eye except that of a baby....

I am Happy---

That I know in my soul that No One else would love this child the way that we do....and that we are able to be the ones doing the loving....

I am Happy--

That the lord made me strong and able to share the struggles in a way that my child doesn't over hear or understand the pain her mommy feels when she sees the suffering....

I am Happy--

That my story has helped so many other parents loving a child like mine--and that they were not tempted to be controlling or give up.....

I am Happy--

That while I face this real trauma as a mother---I have the distraction of seeing others moan constantly about the past or things that don't have to do with how hard it is to help someone who is really dealing with something to moan about....

I am Happy and that is How I manage to get through each day and to the next.....