then why are people still making generalizations towards all adoptive parents? Like "we want adoptees silenced".
Also, is it not hypocritical to tell us not to answer certain questions, when in the same breath your asking not to be silenced?
If I have an adopted child and I support adoptees rights, and I try to be sensitive to all the issues that go along with being an adoptee, shouldn't I be able to speak for my son on his behalf? Your asking parents not to speak about issues they will be dealing with with their own children. Is that not hypocritical?
I'm not trying to bait. I really want to know why we shouldn't be answering certain questions.
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