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If u knew they were child abusers...?

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if u knew certain people had molested a child/children in the past, would u let them adopt ur child. i know someone who is doing this and i cant believe it.

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  1. No, I would not allow them to adopt my child.


  2. No way they should be in jail!!!!

  3. NO.  And if you know this to be true you need to report this to the proper authorities.

  4. Never!  If they were convicted are they legally even able to adopt a child?

  5. Hi,

    Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!  Are you sure nothing can be done to get him convicted? He deserves to be locked away and throw away the key..better yet...DEAD..then no child ever will be hurt again.  Pedophiles never are cured...nope I don't believe they ever recover.

    Eileen

  6. NEVER.

    Yes people change, and I believe everyone deserves a second chance.

    Just not somthing like that. It's far too risky.

    Not to mention I could not forgive them for the child they hurt.

  7. I see so, this is  a story about a girl you know who is willing to let someone adopt her children even though YOU know that these people are child molesters, right. And the mother of the children to be adopted just doesnt care. you have tried to stop this adoption but its going through anyways. Is this correct? it was unclear. and you know that they are molestors because your own child was molested by them. I would continue to seek help and advice but from people in your community. look even in the phone book for child protection agencies, call and tell everyone you can hopefully someone will care enough to help you until it doesnt happen. sounds like you need help with this.

  8. Call the media!

  9. No way! I would never adopt my child.... that's just crazy!

  10. Not a chance!!

  11. NO!  I would be in jail for life before i let them get their hands on another child.  You need to re-involve the police.

  12. Absolutely not. I think that it's illegal for a known offender to adopt any child. Call the police or the adoption agency immediately!

  13. no way never

  14. Knowing what you know, you should turn them in to child services

  15. You can report your concerns to the welfare department or whatever department is set up to insure the welfare of the children.  Even if there is no official record, there should be a paper trail of the things you went through with your child and that is enough evidence to stop the proceedings and get the kids into foster care in stead.

  16. That is crazy, NEVER, these people should not even be allowed to adopt.

  17. This is so sad but it’s understandable since the mother does not care about the child. Its people like this that need to be sterilized. Surely you can mention this to whoever is trying to do the adoption. This would just be a disaster waiting to happen.  No I would not hand my child over to people who are abusive I don’t think any good parent would do this. To willing place your child with  known abusers is completely unacceptable imo, anyone who does all I can say is that  they will have their day of Judgment.

  18. oh gees. wow. you need to talk to this person, help your daughter tell her strait, to the person with the kid, that he did bad things, and shouldnt be taking her child.

  19. That mother is sick! I would never ever do that. You know these adoptive parents aren't going to change- I feel so bad for the kid.

    Love Haleigh<3

  20. i would not that is wrong i would turn them in and then keep any of your kids away form them. if maybe the parents dont know about the molestation then maybe you should step up and tell them about it. be the bigger person.

  21. No. Personally I would leave them in a house with awesome parents like the ones Juno named. Hahaha but really no once a child molester, always a child molester. Dont trust anyone with that on their record hun.

    Chaotic [Clara]

  22. No that's terrible theres a great percentage that it will happen to that child that your giving them who would think of adopting their to child abusers. Shouldn't a  mother want the best for her baby if if she doesn't want it.

  23. NO NO NO.  You probably need to try and talk some sense into this person, also it needs to be brought up to the case worker/court so they know.   What was this person thinking?

  24. Please understand as painful as this was to your child please step forward and speak out so this NEVER happens to another child. Call social services and alert them. Sound-off as much as you possibly can.

    No sicko child molester should ever be around children again let alone adopt them. I am so shocked anyone would consider this....please advocate for this child as best as you can!!!!

    ETA:

        SARAH V  said it all!!!

  25. No way. That's just tempting fate.

    Why would I want to put my child in such a position?

  26. i cannot use enough expletives to get my point across here.  

    my short answer is a resounding "NO!"  how is this any worse than selling your child into sexual slavery?  it's nearly the same thing!

  27. I am speechless. Of course I wouldn't, and if I remember correctly, in order to be adoptive parents you must have a clean record.

  28. No i wouldn't try to keep ur child as far away from them. Your child can go to a much better home than that. Tell that person to go to a adoption place the children go to a better home and then they wont have to worry.

  29. this should not even be a question that needs to be asked- those people should not be allowed to adopt a child- and if someone is allowing this, what is wrong with them?  OF COURSE NOT

  30. Never ever. Even I will avoid them adopting other's children.

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