If ur birthmom and adopted mom were hanging from a cliff who would u save?

Question

U only have time to save ONE. What will u do?

Answer 1

I would grab both of my mothers arms and a have the rest of my family pull us up.

Answer 2

No can do, buddy.

Sorry. Can't choose between two people who have loved me to the ends of the earth in their own ways - regardless of who raised me and who gave me life.

Your question is completely unfair.

Answer 3

Birth mom, my adopted 'mother' kicked me out and has said she never wants to see me again, because of my sexuality. Yay for religion.

My mother died when I was 10 days old in a car bomb in NIrland.

No contest really.

But what about you, do you have children? If you did, then which one of them would you choose?

Why is it so hard for people to understand that people are quite capable of loving two mothers, just as a parent can love two children.

Answer 4

Obviously one should save the adoptive mom since she is a saint who rescued a baby from a dumpster.  

We know all those b*#@!moms are crack hos, abusive, and generally insane.

Answer 5

I'd save my Mom, the woman who raised me.  Regardless of why I was given for adoption, my Mom is the woman I have the emotional connection to.

Answer 6

I think it would really be dependent on the individual's situation.  Some may choose the birth mom, others may choose the adoptive mom, others as you can see, would choose to go over the side with them.  It is all going to be dependent on the type of relationship that the person had with each of the people hanging over the cliff.

Answer 7

I go over with both of them

Answer 8

i'm not adopted but i would have to say my adopted mom (my friend's mother) because all my life my real mom told me how i was suppose to be a still born and that she never wanted a baby girl, how could she love me, that i was a little ***** and how she had to go out of here way to bring me to the doctors b/c i had lead posioning. But having to chose i would chose the person that loved me and took good care of me.

Answer 9

I'd go over with them

Answer 10

wow thats hard

especially bcoz im giving my son away soon :/

Answer 11

I'd save my mom, then I'd ask her who that other lady was.

Answer 12

I'd go over with them both, if I could not save them both. My adoptive mother I have lived with since I was seven, but my true mother did not give me up because she abused or did not want me, she died, so it's not like I hate her...

Answer 13

Dear Shredder,

Totally unfair question.  Nothing makes me cringe more than hearing someone asking an adoptee to choose between their parents.

Answer 14

This is not a simple question there are a lot of factors that could determine who one would save.  Is one easier to save then the other? If one weighs more than the other obviously it would be easier to save the one that weighs less.  

Now if the situation was balanced and I could truly only safe one. Then I would pick to safe the mom that has raise me over my biological mother who would be nothing but a stranger to me.  As they say Family First.

Answer 15

For all those people that are saying that you'd save you adoptive mom over your birth mom because your birth mom didn't care about you anyway, you need to rethink things.

Both these women LOVE us. One loved us enough to not abort us, but give us up so that we could be raised in a way that she was not able. The other loved us enough to bring us in as total strangers and care for us as her own.

If I were going to have to watch one mom be saved and the other fall off the cliff, I would rather us all go together.

Answer 16

I'd kick them both off.  

Answer 17

I'm with Heather B.  I'd go over with both of them.

Answer 18

I'd make them decide who gets saved.

Answer 19

i'm not adopted or anything,

But,

I'd save my adopted mom.

cuz she woulda been the one who raised me...

Answer 20

Shredder, your two children (current or future scenario) are hanging from a cliff and "U" only have time to save one.  What will "U" do?

Answer 21

I'm not adopted but if I were I would save my adopted mum as they would be the one who wanted me so badly in the first place and gave me a loving home. They would have acted as my parent through thick and thin whereas my birthmum clearly couldn't cope or couldn't have me in the first place for one reason or another. So yeahh, my adopted mum would be the one to save.

Unless my birthmum was highly pressured into giving me away e.g if she was very young and if she got in touch with me A.S.A.P.

Anywayz, I have 2 hands so I'd grab them both..if not, i'd either save them both and sacrifice myself orrrr fall to my death with them :)

xx

Answer 22

Can you ask your adoptive mom to grab your birth mom and you can pull them both up?!

Answer 23

No mother GIVES UP her baby willingly for adoption. There are so many reasons and your question is a painful one which only you can resolve.

Hopefully you are attending counselling. signed: A Birthmother

Answer 24

Are you referring to rock climbing.  Why would they be dumb enough to put themselves in the position of hanging from a cliff.  

Answer 25

my adopted mom because my birth mom didn't want me any ways

Answer 26

i only have one

birth mom i guess she went through the pain to bring me into this world even if she gave me up

wait i would grab my real mom and then i would put her on the top and then i would grab my " Adopted mom" and put her up