If we are the sum of all of all our parts: personality, education, upbringing, life experiences...?

Question

Knowing this, would you change one of the factors about yourself> If so, which one, why, and how do you think it would effect who you have become?

Answer 1

,no...I whine about one, but would not be me without it....we have choices to make ...sometimes we err...I made a choice never to beat my children as I was....then I went overboard and was too kind...I thank my parents for all they taught me when it comes to experiences and education but they lacked love

Answer 2

Honestly I think about this all the time. With me I would love to change the fact that I wouldnt think so bad about someone who drinks. I have a father who is an alcoholic and honestly allowed us to do some pretty bad stuff when I was around 4years old. I would love to change the fact that I think people who drink are going to do the same c**p my dad did. But honestly, I am an 18 year old who is one of those people in the world who does not drink smoke or do any drugs. Also would love to change the fact that I can be really really quiet at times when it comes to socializing but when I get to work I am talkative. Its wierd and honestly dont know how to explain it. Personality wise I am mostly quiet among some people and some friends and family I open up easily to. I guess you can say trust more people than I have and allow more people to get to know the real person I am instead of just seeing the quiet person I show. This causes alot of stress in my life since I honestly dont have many friends, and the ones that do get close I have a problem with allowing them to be part of my everday life. Also last but not least education, well my sister dropped out of High school and is having troubles finding a job and also has a child. Me, I descided to go into a different path Graduate High School and will be going to college in the fall. ALso work two jobs as of right now.Also don't plan to be a parent till I have a stable relationship with someone and have got my degree. Also, I would love to chnage some factors about my life but honestly without the experiences I have had in life I wouldnt be the person I am today. But enougfh about me.How about you? I have told you some stuff. What has changed you in the person you are?

Answer 3

I'd change some "life experiences" that did some major damage; both physically & emotionally.