If women get married to each other?

Question

Who wears the wedding dress? Do they both wear wedding dresses, or does one decide to be the man?

And yes, this is legal in california

Answer 1

This would reflect the roles they have in the relationship.

Answer 2

I think one will wear a wedding dress and the other (the one with the mullet haircut) will wear pants and hiking boots.

Answer 3

They do whatever they want to. There is no set rules. Both can wear suits. One can wear a wedding dress the other a pant suit or a taylored jack and skirt (in black. white ... whatever their heart desires) One could wear a traditional wedding dress (big and puffy lol) And the other a more plain and simple formal dress. They could even wear matching dresses if they so choice.

Both the brides need to sit down and talk about how they see their wedding day.

Answer 4

You can wear what you want.

I saw two women get married on MTV's True Life. (they both wore Wedding dresses.)

OR

you can be like Ellen Degeneres....one wears a tux and the other wears a dress.

Answer 5

Truly it depends on what they both feel like wearing. There is no real "set rules" for a same s*x marriage. All depends on their character & style.

I've seen some where both the women are in dresses; simple yet elegant.

Good luck.

Answer 6

They can wear whatever makes them feel most comfortable - they can both wear gowns, one can wear a gown and another a suit, both can wear suits, or they can wear jeans and sneakers. It depends entirely on the couple.

Answer 7

It's between THEM. How's THAT- for "freedom of choice" ?!  :)

Answer 8

That's an individual decision.  If they both want to wear a dress, then they should wear dresses.  Just because it's a wedding, doesn't mean that someone has to take the role of a man.  It's about joining a couple in love, that's all.  It has nothing to do with pretending one is the husband, because she wouldn't be.  However, there are lesbians who prefer to wear pants.  I even heard of a straight woman who got married in a suit.

Answer 9

Both, neither, one: there's no law that any woman getting married has to wear a wedding dress. It's rather sad that women marrying men feel they have to even if they don't want to.

Answer 10

ellen degeneres wore the pants...her wife wore the dress...the manlier of the two should wear the pants...the one who cooks and cleans should wear the dress...there is always a more feminine one of the two!

http://ellen.warnerbros.com/photos/2008/...

Answer 11

I think they each decide what they wear, for example: Ellen Degeneras and her new bride... Ellen wore the tux and Portia wore the wedding gown.  

Answer 12

It's between the brides themselves. If both of them dream of wearing a gown or dream of wearing a tux, they choose. Their marriage is far from traditional and so I wouldn't expect that it would be restricted by the traditional roles of "bride and groom" where there's one suit and one dress. As is true with any wedding, it's all about the bride and what she dreams up. There's no right answer.