If you're a capricorn female, I need your opinion!?

Question

I'm a libra guy who's currently dating a capricorn girl. We're in a serious relationship and plan to get married in about 2 to 3 years from now.

She is a very passionate person and I can feel her super strong love for me. She is extremely caring, intense, and affectionate towards me, and I have no doubt that she trully loves me.

However, she's not without her negative sides. I find her often being in emotional roller coaster. She can be happy at a moment, and suddenly being super sad the next minute. She also worries about everything, fears everything, and over analyses everything.

Also, she tends to think that her ways are the best ways, and if things don't go in her way, she gets extremely upset or even very angry. Something that's mildly annoying to other people can be extremely annoying for her, amplified 100 times. She even admits to being a perfectionist as well. As an imperfect human, I could do a mistake and annoy a general person for 5 minutes, but the same mistake would annoy and make her super angry for 2 days.

In essence, I feel overwhelmed and intimidated by this, and what do I do to handle her?!

If you're a capricorn female, please tell me what's in your mind and heart, and how you want to be handled.

I trully love her and just want to make her happy!

Answer 1

She sounds pretty much like me. My suggestion is just to be understanding to her. That's all they really want, someone to understand their complicated life. You want to reassure her that you are the one who can be trusted and is loyal to her. If she can't trust you, the relationship won't last because she's going to raise a lot of suspicion on you.

It's stressful in a Capricorn's world. They are quite emotional. They over analyze too much and become very skeptical of everything, which makes them hard to trust anyone. Also, they are perfectionists because they feel it's their responsibility to meet all of their own expectations. They go under a lot of stress and become angry when they feel they might not fulfill their goals. They are serious people when it comes to business and goals. But on the bright side, they can be playful and funny on their less serious side.

Bottom line is that they need someone who is trustworthy, loyal, and understanding.

Answer 2

Well, you did just perfectly describe a Capricorn female..we can be utter perfectionists and very critical with ourselves and others for not being perfect.  And, yes, worry worts...we want everything to be right, and get upset when it's not, mostly because we blame ourselves for it.

You, Mr. Libra, will probably never be able to change this about her, but there's some real good news here...she probably loves and needs you so much because you are exactly the way you are...her intellectual equal, but her emotional buoy...your warmth and sunniness is exactly what goaty girl needs to show her the good parts about life....

We Cap women tend to get pulled into the mire of living, heads down, pushing along. Very few work as hard as a Cappy girl, and they do it out of love and desire to support themselves, their family, and the ones they love.

Libra can bring the sunshine and the joy of living into the Goat's life, and that's like nourishment to a parched earth sign. So be her partner and equal, treat her with respect, and when you see her pulling too much load, pull her away and take her somewhere to relax. She'll fuss at first, but appreciate it later.

Very best of luck to you and congrats to your lady for finding such a sweet guy.

Answer 3

Well, She Seems ALOT like me, the emotional roller coasters can be easily handled if u leave her alone, i mean dont make anything to upset her, just take her into ur arms and sit together in silence!!

She'll open up then, i wish someone does this to me!

You cant stop her being a perfectionist but tell her to rest every once in a while cuz she can get to a point that she collapses! We try too much to achieve perfection!

We get annoyed Quick, so i didnt figure out how to avoid this yet!

I want someone to understand me(the way u do with ur gf), comfort me, save me from myself and love me more than anything!

Respect my feelings, doesnt do anything to mess up how i organize the stuff, Just someone to talk to, make her feel safe!!

Answer 4

awwwwwwwwww you're so sweet !!

She sounds like a typical cap to me.

Not really much you CAN do, you have to accept her for who she is. She does want everything to be right, and just doesn't like it when they are not.

Just rememeber now that she loves you, she will ALWAYS love you. When she gets upset with you, don't take it personally. And whatever you do--don't even TRY to smooth things over until she is ready to talk about it.

When I am upset with someone, I have to stay away from them for a while--mainly so I can "analyze" the situation. I will want to rationally discuss it then.

Answer 5

she sounds a bit virgoan to me.....and if that is the case, virgos do tend to do that, but they really mean no harm to others.......she never holds the same standards to others as she does herself, and i know that like hypocritical cause you're around her and you can't exactly just ignore tha completely......but just ignore her hypersensitivity if you can......and also, virgoes and cappies enjoy worrying over everything.....and if they're not worrying, they are just not comfortable.....weird yes.....and he mood swings may baffle/upset you, but do not, as everyone is different, and if she is mood swinging on a whim, rmember she has probably beeen doing this for decades now, and is used to it, if not prefers it (cuz that's what she's used to) : D

edit....2nd paragraph of irish spirite is very on : D.....like i fail to acknowledge it at times, but my life has become so much better now that my bf is in it.

Answer 6

It's normal. Libra-Capricorn relationships usually don't last, but the ones that do typically last for a very long time. You have to treat her the same way you want to be treated as a Libra. Just like you want your space, you have to give her space. Both signs are independent, while Capricorns are more controlling.

Understanding the roles in your relationship is going to be the major challenge here. If you're an uncompromising Libra (I know there are some), then there will be major difficulties. Try to be understanding and supportive without expressing it too much or coming off as too clingy.