Were you glad you did, or did you wish you hadn't? Were you happy or disappointed with what you found?
I am trying to decide if I should search my birth mother out. She gave my sister and I up for adoption when we were 6 & 7 years old. I remember her and have often wondered where she is and how she is doing. I have her social security # because it was on my original birth certificate, which I got a copy of when my sister and I were still in foster care for a memory book thing our social worker had us make.
Honestly I am scared to find her because I'm afraid that I will be diappointed in what I find. She wasn't a very fit parent and she made so many poor decisions while we lived with her that it really was best that she gave us up for adoption. We were adopted by wonderful people and when I think of my 'parents', it is my adoptive parents that I think of and love the absolute most. I am fiercely loyal to them, but I worry about my birth mother and want to know that she's OK.
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