If you are haveing a rugh time with your husband and he thinks that you think only of yourself what do you do?

Question

Okay here is my problem my husband is having a rough time with me wanting to be held or even talked to. He think that I only think of my self and no one else. He hates my family and he wont even realize that I am the only one working for us and I am doing alto. He thinks he does not have to work at all and I have to work a full time job to help him out. What should I do.

Answer 1

sounds like a dead beat leave him or kick him out, if you pay the bills then he needs to leave he can come back when he has a job.

Answer 2

Kick him out, cut him loose, let him learn responsibility without it dragging you down. Unless he's a househusband and helping you to do what you do best.

Answer 3

Keep your money to yourself, you earned it you owe no one, except your children.  If he wants to eat, have clean clothes, etc, let him go out and earn it.  Your not one of his parents.  By all means stay out of his bed.  If you are supporting him it is like he is sleeping with his Mother!

Answer 4

You married that loser knowing this? I would never marry a man that could not support me. Yes I have a job, but I'll be dogged if I would work my behind off while he sat at home. Then ditz my family on top of that...no way would I stay married to him. Find someone who is worthy of you.