If you are having problems with your parents would you move in with your boyfriend?

Question

My parents argue with everything that i do and everything seems to be my fault, i want to move out but i only have a part-time job and i now that if i move out right now I'm not going to be able to pay my bills so I'm looking for a new job, well my boyfriend says to move in with him and that he will take care of the bills and that way i can keep my part time job and keep on going to college. i need some advice

Answer 1

I am really sorry to your parents but i would move in with my boyfriend  as long as you arite about it!!

Answer 2

I'm not sure how old you are, but I'm all for the independency. I say you should try it out with your bf. The time and space away from your parents will better your relationship.

Answer 3

I understand you are frustrated.  Just remember moving in together can cause a lot of tention in a relationship.  I dont think its worth risking your relationship.  How long have you guys been together?

Answer 4

If your relationship is strong enough. If you and him are both sure about taking this step- then go ahead. If you do move in with him continue to go to school and put some money towards bills and/or groceries when you can. This will show that with every spare dollar you are trying to help and not just sponge him for free living.

It is very nice that your boyfriend is offering this. If you two are completely serious and know eachother very well (you never truly know someone until you live with them) then it should work out.

Best of luck

Answer 5

just  tell  them

Answer 6

Good idea. It's best to do that. I know what it's like, I did the same things. My boyfriend and I have been living together for a few months now, and we've been together for about a year and a half. It's better than living with my parents. Since he'll take care of the bills, you could help around the house, and continue to work and stay in college. Plus, you're an adult now, so there's nothing wrong with acting on your own. Your life, and your parents need to bud out.

Answer 7

I would keep in touch with my parents. Just in case maybe they were just pushing you too hard. Parents are like that! Don't worry about it move in with your boyfriend for a while. Just a little. Then once your parents see they've been pushing you wayyy more then they're supposed to they'll know they've made a mistake. Dont worry about it :)