If you are in a relationship where hubby or bf has a anger/emotional kind of problem

Question

do you think having a 3rd child can help change that person....if the first 2 didnt change them

Answer 1

Children do not fix these kinds of issues.  He needs help and another child may just acerbate things even more.  I also suggest that you seek a counselor to help you out of this cycle that you are in with this man.  There are all kinds of groups around to help you.

Answer 2

If you and/or your children are being abused, GET OUT!

The National center on Domestic Violence number is 1-800-799-7233

I grew up in a home with domestic violence, You are not doing your children a favor by staying,

Answer 3

NO!!  if anything, kids are making it worse on him.

if he refuses to get help, then end the relationship.

Answer 4

NO not to mention not exactly a good reason for having a child  

Answer 5

Don't even dream about it, parenting is a very special thing, but unfortunately when you have a mental disorder,as anger, specially  children are the most affected ones, because ussually angerish people gets it with the person they love the most and are vulnerable to their problems as children are. So, having more children is not the solution and the cure to that anger, anger management is.  

Answer 6

If it didn't work the first two times, why would it a third time?

I would strongly suggest therapy. If the man won't go, the woman should go by herself.

Answer 7

no

Answer 8

uh of course not. That's a HORRIBLE way to treat another life and I'm appalled to hear that people actually think that bringing a child into it would actually make things better. You only make the situation worse and not only that your messing with someone else's life! Children are not toys or 'band-aids'. I never would have had a first child with this guy nevermind a 3rd. I would have left his sorry a**