If you are not ready for s*x what are some other things you can do with your boyfriend that aren't bad?

Question

I"m 17 years old and i know i am absolutely not ready for the real thing. Is it bad for me to do other things with my boyfrieind? like have him finger me.. and me jack him off.. and 69

Answer 1

I wouldn't say bad at all those are fine.  It truly is up to you.  But you can use toys as well if you're getting bored with what you do

Answer 2

It's all about what you are comfortable with but just remember two things. STD!!! AHH scary thought.  I just read that HPV can give you several cancers, including throat and condoms dont completely protect that.  And would you be comfortable telling your hubby one day?  

See, I was 17 when I met my fiance, but I had done lots before I met him,  He took my V card but I knew I wanted to marry him then. He on the other hand, never did anything!! So for a while I was slightly regretting my adventrous side.  Then I got over it( when he told me he wanted a three some, which shows he regrets not trying anything)

Another point, I have 4 cousins that are 16. Two have had s*x, one of which is now a lesbain.  The third is Bi and fourth quite shy.  All I hope for them since I was once their age is use protection and get tested.  

Just make sure you are comfortable, use protection and NEVER let someone make you feel you have to do it.

Answer 3

At age 17 I believe that you will find it QUITE IMPOSSIBLE to push the bull back into the pen once he has been released. Your hormones are RACING and RAGING at this age and I seriously doubt that once you get started with oral s*x, petting or physical fondling that you (or ANYYYY of us) are going to have the will power to suddenly sit up and get dressed and leave the bedroom. It just doesn't work that way. Sexual Intimacy is not like a water faucet to be turned off and on with the twist of your wrist. It's also sending your boyfriend a very "hypocritical message" about pre-marital s*x. The safest way to avoid trouble is to avoid the boyfriend. Tell him your not ready for s*x until you are older or married.

Good Luck

Answer 4

foot jobs

Answer 5

Movies

Hanging out at your house or his

Playing computer games with him

Telling Jokes with each other

Talking on the phone or texting

Answer 6

No matter what, it eventually leads to s*x, can cause frustration and make things harder to abstaine, also can lead to the oaccasional oops/prengancy. So be careful and prepare yourself, remember you can get STDs from oral, and uncleanliness after a handjob. Have fun, Good luck~

Answer 7

Why are you asking us? Completely based on what you like.

Answer 8

It totally depends on what you guys like. Not us.

Answer 9

No, it is really up to you.

He can give you oral to or you could give it to him also.

there are many alternatives to have actaul vaginal s*x.