Okay, i just answered a question were the asker thinks that people on this site are anti-adoption, because some people would like to give the mother a chance to parent. I think in some cases a person can clean up their act and become a better person. Anyway on to my point...I see where most people write about adoption reforms and then they are quickly accused of being anti-adoption. How can someone be anti-adoption of the reforms wanted could benefit all involved in the adoption process.
I mean just because someone says lets help the mother first before the decision to adopt, doesn't make them anti-adoption. It just means they are trying to give some one a second chance. Now, if the parent can't or won't clean up their lives then of course another family should step in and care for the child.
I just don't understand why people who want reforms are called anti-adoption. Just like ones on here who say those who look at the negative should also look at the postive.
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