If you could have an agreed upon 3 month vacation from your marriage?

Question

with returning in 90 days no questions asked would you do it? Why or why not?

Answer 1

No. I'd miss my man too much.

Answer 2

If you want breaks in your marriage, then  you weren't ready to be married in the 1st place.

Answer 3

If its something for his job that requires him to go away then that's ok. He is int the military. Other then that, I really don't think he would need to leave for 3 months.  I feel that for someones job then yes they have no choice, but if they had a choice to leave, then apparently they are not happy and don't need to be together!!  

Answer 4

No way!  I don't understand this. If you LOVE your husband/wife why would you need the 3 month vacation first off. (BTW, been married 10 years, so I'm not quite a newby.)

If you don't love e/o enough to stay faithful, why not just be honest with each other and move on.

Or do something spicy together??

Answer 5

Oh yes! I know the whole if you love each other you shouldn't need a break thing; but sometimes you just do - I would if I was married. I'm not talking about cheating necessarily just having a break, switching off and not dealing with the day to day annoying habits that are no longer endearing. The chance to just have a break and try things that you just don't get to do because you've compromised on something. So yes I believe absence makes the heart fonder.  

Answer 6

That's weird, Whats the point?

Answer 7

It is a good way to find out you are better off single. Marriage depends on the illusion that you need each other to be a sane person.