If you dont want to get taken into care, but you want physical abuse to stop, what do you do?

Question

obiously i dont want 2 split up my family and i dont want to go into care or my brothers

but i still want it to stop

Answer 1

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Answer 2

I'm sorry but the only way to stop it is to tell, if you don't tell it will never stop and your brothers may be next if they are not being abused yet.

would being in care be so bad can it be any worse than the life you are living now don't be blinded by this loyalty to keep your family together you and your brothers need to be safe and free of abuse first so please tell some-one, a teacher, a police man, your Doctor don't help your abuser by keeping quiet.

good luck..xxxx

Summer this is not a house wife asking for help this is a child, she said she does not want to go into care, meaning she is a young child.;

she also said she is worried for her brothers not her kids.

why don't folk like Summer understand that its not all about them

Answer 3

whose doing the physical abuse?

if its one of ur parents u will need to split the family up its the only way to keep u and ur siblings safe. by moving with the non-abusive parent to a new area

Answer 4

Is it one parent? Both parents? Are they abusing you and your brothers?. If it is just one parent talk to the other one as they MUST know what is happening. I'm really sorry, I don't know enough about the situation to give more advice, how old are you? Call Childline (0800 1111), they are always willing to help and offer advice.

Make sure it stops and you get out of danger. Turn to other relatives (Aunts, Uncles) Or another adult you are close with and trust.

Good luck, and sorry xx

Answer 5

There are a few things you can do. One being you could contact social services, they will be able to place you with a member of your family i.e your grand parents, as long as they are willing to take you. You could have supervised visitation room your parents when you want only, that way your abuser can be given help and in time things may get better for you to move back, if you feel you could. Good Luck x

Answer 6

Which ever parent is abusing you will be locked up and a court can relocate you, your siblings and remaining parent but you must tell some one in authority. If the other parent refuses to press charges then you will have no choice but to go in to care. If you are the oldest make sure they do not separate you and your siblings. Demand to stay together.

Answer 7

smack the person who's doing it to you with a baseball bat, so they know how it feels and tell them if they do it again you're going to the police

Answer 8

Please take it from me, I didn't want to split up my family either, but I also didn't want my kids to think mom getting beat all the time was the way of life.  Unless he is willing to get professional help, and even then, it's a long shot that it will stop, you need to stand up on your own two feet and support yourself and your kids if there is any.  I did it with 3 kids.  Everyday woman make the decision for the craziness to stop.  Maybe it's time you do the same.

Answer 9

Of course you don't want to split up your family, but any kind of abuse, physical or otherwise, is not to be tolerated.  Get to a helper, such as the police or a trusted other adult, and let the chips fall where they may.  In a few years, you will be an adult yourself and will see the wisdom of protecting children from abuse no matter what.

The abuse must stop and that is the highest priority, for your own protection.