If you ever felt....led on..help please?

Question

so. lets just say, girl meets boy. girl likes boy (alot) and thinks he likes her too. but boy meets another girl and asks her out. then the very same day, flirts so much more than normal with first girl....

its like he freaking just wanted to rub it in my face that im not with him... or at least, thats how i felt about it. like he was being all nice and everything right when i cant have him. so i guess my question is, do you think he was like that on purpose? i know its kinda dumb question. ive just been kinda pissed and upset about it. sorry. lol.

Answer 1

One thing I've noticed in both myself and in other guys is that while they're looking for a girl, they're very tense and uptight when around girls; they don't want to look stupid and foolish, and 'mess up their chances.' After they are in a steady relationship, they're able to relax more, because they're no longer under that same pressure; because they're more relaxed, they are more likely to play and joke around with other girls, and they seem to be flirting.

While this obviously isn't always the case, I've definitely seem some guys who were 'flirting' with girls even though they were currently in a relationship. They probably didn't think of themselves as realy being flirty; just friendly. Remember, guys are confused about girls' feelings just as often as girls are confused about guys'. The only sure way to know anything is to tell someone straight up how you feel, which is sometimes hard to do.

Answer 2

He might of been doing it on purpose

maybe to get you to notice him a little more.

Sounds like an a** thing to do but guys do that a lot.

Answer 3

well hats happened to me before..i was hurt for a long time but the wounds healed..but back to your question...i dont think he knew that he was tormenting you like that..but you should talk to him about it and find out why he did what he did..good luck