If you fall for someone who is attached?

Question

i like this particular girl maybe it should say love at first sight and we met when we were dancing at club. Beginning we are quite strangers so hardly contact but then i knew i have alittle crush on her and she did tell me shes attached on the spot when we met. I did confess her my feelings maybe i'm quite outspoken cause i don't want to live my life with regrets. She knew and she doesn't know how to reject people and been trying to drop the topic when i trying to express. Few days back we started to really talk on phone and even meet out once. From closer contact and interaction i knew her more as well as she know me deeper. We have alot in common from food to interests to everything and basically we click very well. is strange to ever talk to someone new anything everything and also good laughing session. I think this isn't a crush anymore, i truly like her alot and it goes as she started to feel for me a bit but then she's attached and she's faithful and true to her partner. What should i do? Should i try to keep a distance from her or should i continue like this which may led to more and more and i feel bad if i destroy them. Her love is quite fix to her partner but times as she quarrel with her she will tell me and chat about it. What should i really do? Distance or closer? I don't want it to be just a crush honestly.

Answer 1

How true can she be to him if she's with you?  Even if you had her, could you trust her?  Tell her, you need to know one way or the other and make it fast.  

I would bet he looks like you and she likes your attention.  Give yourself 30 days (which is generous) and then walk away.  Either she is yours or not.

If she says she is yours, I would always wonder, given the way she treats her current boyfriend.  After all, you're boyfriend #2 (as far as you know, maybe there's 3 and 4).

Answer 2

well lf she`s already attached then l would just leave her alone cause lt can cause some hard ship for you and your gonna end up hurt at the end

Answer 3

I think you should tell her that when she's single to give her a call. Keep your distance, I know you want more, but you don't want to be one of those girlfriend stealers, and cause drama during a new relationship, because that will just cause tension and you might not even be able to go out because of all the problems.  

Answer 4

tough jam

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well just go out with some other people and try to forget about her

(its hard i know)

but try

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Answer 5

You should distance yourself because firstly, if you were the boyfriend, you wouldn't like someone slowly taking away your girlfriend. Secondly, if she isn't faithful to her partner, will she be faithful to you? You got to be careful because this girl sounds very "if"-y.  

Answer 6

best to be a good gentleman and let her be. no point be a third party?

take it if she was your gf and there's a 3rd party....woud you like it....?

  

Answer 7

I agree if she is faithful what is she doing out ther on the singles floor without her honey you really need to find someone who isnt in both worlds  but you probally won't good luck  bub

Answer 8

If she 's in a relationship let her remain where she is. I wouldnt want to come inbetween someone relationship either. I think the best thing to do in this case is ignore your deep feelings for her, and go on with your life, because its the right thing to do, Im sure you and her will both hurt, but sometime things are painful.

Answer 9

If I found out that someone I fell for is already attached, I'll slowly distance myself from her, 'cos I don't want either of us to go thru the pain of having to leave someone you'd once loved. Some people can have multiple relationships going on at some time, but I'm not that type & don't think I can or want to take that kind of emotional stress in my peaceful existence. Can be good friends but not lovers & don't cross that line.