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Okay, so I have liked this one boy since I was in 6th grade, now I'm in 10th grade. But back in 6th grade he moved to Colorado and I live in Pennsylvania. And about two weeks ago, he came up to visit all of his friends here, before he heads back to school. Back in 6th grade I could barely even look at him, let alone talk to him. But anyways the town that I live in was having this picnic, it was like our school picnic. And some of my friends and I were up in the school parking lot just talking. And my best friend Carlie called me on my cell phone to come down to the picnic (the picnic was right in front of the school parking lot) So I told my friends and we waled down. Then I saw Carlie walking towards me. She was like "Hey, what was that boys name that you liked back in 6th grade?" I was like "Nate!" Then I saw her waving to someone to come over to me. And all of a sudden I saw Nate walking towards me. He came over and shook my hand, and was like "Hey I'm Nate, whats up?" And my heart just started pounding, and I just got real nervous. But as he started to talk to me he made it so comfortable to talk to him. It was a really good feeling, that I never in my life experienced. So about 10 minutes into our conversation he was like "Do you want to hang or something tomorrow?" I was just in shock so I said "Yeah, sure!" But I totally forgot that I really was doing something. Then we exchanged numbers. So, then after my best friend Carlie left he asked me, and some of my other friends if we wanted to go up to the school parking lot, and watch him skateboard. So we did and the whole time he was skating he had his eyes on me. It was just so amazing! Then later on he left, and I left. And the next day came, and I waited and I waited for him to call. But he never ever did. I wasen't to worried about it, because I just figured he was like with his family and friends and was most likely busy. So I haven't talked to him for 2 whole weeks. But yesterday I checed my myspace and there was a message from him. I cobied and pasted it for you guys, so this is exactly what it says....

hey not a whole lot but i am back in Colorado sry we couldn't hang out at all i feel like i missed out on something amazing lol ill keep in contact if you get texts and stuff.

sry again that we couldn't of seen more of each other

-nate-

Would that be a good sign that he likes me? Or what exactly does it mean? Thanks for you help!

Answer 1

Possibly. Maybe since you have gotten more older looking and all he thinks ur good looking.  Maybe he jsut hasn't seen you in a while and wanted to see you.  He may know that u use to like him so yeah it could be just friends or he lieks you.

Answer 2

well  just keep talking to him and the longer you talk it will be easier to tell. Trust me I had a similar situation. Email me at [e-mail] and let me know its you if you need more advice

Answer 3

Okay my advice is is simple.Look that looks more like a message from a friends. I suggest you don't get your hopes up BUT don't forget about him. Don't focus just on him but on other guys, too. Hope this helps.

Answer 4

Definitely. I'm telling you from personal experience that he totally wants you. Now. Convince your parents to let you fly over there, but whatever you do, DON'T TELL HIM. Show up at his school and surprise him. He'll love you for it. You'll probably get married.

Answer 5

he likes you, but Colorado is really far away from Pennsylvania. I think you should move on.

Answer 6

It's a little hard to decipher his myspace message - the message is pretty short and doesn't seem to have any hidden meanings.  However, upon first glance I would assume it is a friendly one.  The thing to keep in mind here is that if someone really wants to see you

(especially if they have not seen you in 4 years), they should make the time to see you and not send you a friendly message AFTER they leave the state.  Then to my next point which is really a bummer.  Since you guys are in two separate states and you are only in 10th grade, it will be difficult for you to have a long distance relationship.  Trust me, I've been there.  My sincere advice to you is that you chalk it up to a fun day and find someone new.  I know a lot of people will say you should go for it, but it is not realistic.  They are being very nice by telling you this but, I don't want you to waste your time, you are still very young.  Even if he does really like you, the chances of you and him having a long-distance relationship is slim because unfortunately you guys don't have any friendship history.  You two don't really know each other and will not have an opportunity to learn about each other.  Hope this isn't too much of a bummer...  :)

Answer 7

Yes, he really likes you! Maybe if he comes up again you could do something like the cinema or something.

Don't let yourself get down because he's back in Colorado though!

Answer 8

It is a good sign because hes interested in you and he wanted to see more of you.

Answer 9

i think he likes you. why else would he ask to hang out? and the fact that he didnt call is probably no big deal. there was probably an emergency with his family that he had to attend or something. but you guys live in entirely different states. and you guys both could easily meet someone else.  

Answer 10

Ok 1st things 1st...He seems to be interested in you. If a guy walks up to you and introduces himself and ask if you'd like to hang that means he must like something about you.Also his message seemed really sincere so he must like you.

Answer 11

its a good sign

he wanted to hang, not so sure he likes yu maybe jst talk to him

on msn,yahoo or w/e yu have  jst dnt get distant with him again

talk to him wenever yu can:) he`ll start to fall for yu maybee

Answer 12

i dont know anything about love but i know s*x

Answer 13

i definitly think he likes you and that is way too long lol but i would say he likes u

good luck *lys*

Answer 14

Well I dont want to make you feel bad, but it does sound like he just wanted to be your friends.  But!! You could still ask him if he wants to go out. Cause long Distance Relationships work.  I myself am in one and we live about 5 states apart.    Maybe he had to leave early to go back to Colorado the next day and thats why he couldn't hang with you.

So,  Your best option would be to ask him if he likes you and see if maybe you two could go out. Because if your in a long distance relationship you get to talk a whole lot more to one another. Then You will see if the two of you have anything in common then if you think the time is right just..ask him out. ..Eventually you two will be together if you wanna be.  

I am going to surprise my Gf by going where she lives when she gets surgery on her jaw.  I dont want her to see me there when she goes into surgery but the whole time she's recovering and in the hospital i want to be there with you.

But it really depends on him and you.  If you like one another enough..then try going out with him even though you live far apart.

Answer 15

i think thats a good sign that he likes u unless ur best friend put him up to talking and chilling out with u but for him to have left that message on Myspace, he really likes u

Answer 16

Um i dont know sorry, but i think you should keep talking/texting him.............~xoxo ally*

Answer 17

i think that he likes you if he wanted to hang out more with you i think that you should talk to him more and the next time he visits youll be like best frieds or maby even closer and youll spend allthat time with him

just follow you heart nothing else just your heart good luck!

Answer 18

That just sounds like a message from one friend to another.

Don't get your hopes up.  He is in Colorado, you are in Pennsylvania.  There's no way something could happen regardless, so don't put all your eggs towards some guy in Colorado.

Maybe your paths will cross again for a longer period of time and then you can see if there are sparks...but just don't read into it too much.  Focus on the guys that live near you, not across the country.

Answer 19

i honestly thinks he is interesting ,just take it slow and get to know him better . Well it is a good start u have his number so u guys can have a good laugh now and then and enjoy life ur both young. Let the friendship grow natural don't force it.